The Invisible Strings Holding You Back (And How to Cut Them)

Most people don’t fail because they lack talent, intelligence, or opportunity. They fail because they let invisible excuses—the ones that feel reasonable—hold them back.

That’s exactly what we unpacked in my latest episode of The Competitive Edge Podcast with Drew Hanlen, an elite skills coach who’s worked with some of the best athletes in the world. If you’re serious about leveling up, this conversation is one you don’t want to miss. ??? Listen here.

But let’s get into it—because this shift in mindset could change everything for you.

Are You Holding Yourself Back Without Realizing It?

Think about a goal you’ve been chasing but haven’t quite reached. Now, ask yourself: Why haven’t I achieved it yet?

Be honest.

Most of us default to the same justifications:

• “I don’t have time.”
• “I’m not ready yet.”
• “I just need the right opportunity.”

Sounds valid, right? But here’s the truth—these are just invisible strings we’ve attached to ourselves. They create the illusion that something outside of us is in control, when in reality, we’re the ones holding the scissors.

The shift? Instead of saying “I don’t have time,” say “It’s not a priority.”

That one change alone forces accountability. It makes you realize that the gap between where you are and where you want to be isn’t time, talent, or luck—it’s choices.

Discipline is the Ultimate Confidence Hack

Have you ever noticed that when you follow through on a commitment—big or small—you feel unshakable?

That’s because confidence doesn’t come from external success. It comes from keeping promises to yourself.

• Waking up early when you said you would.
• Hitting the gym when you didn’t feel like it.
• Showing up, even when motivation was low.

Discipline isn’t just about the work—it’s about the trust you build in yourself. And that trust? That’s what creates the momentum to go after bigger and bigger wins.

Real Success = Inner Peace

Most of us chase success because we think it will bring happiness. But here’s what I’ve learned from talking to high achievers:

You can win all the external trophies—money, status, accolades—but if you don’t have inner peace, none of it matters.

True success is knowing you showed up fully, gave your best effort, and refused to settle. It’s about eliminating the justifiable excuses and doing what it takes to reach your highest potential.

Take This With You Today:

? Identify one invisible string you’ve been using as an excuse. ? Reframe it—turn it into an ownership statement. ? Take one small action today to move forward.

Because the truth is, the only thing standing between you and the next level is the decision to cut the excuses and start moving.

??? If this resonated, you’ll love my conversation with Drew Hanlen on The Competitive Edge Podcast. We break down exactly how to rewire your mindset, eliminate excuses, and win at the highest level. Check it out here.

Now—what’s one excuse you’re done making? Drop a comment and let’s go! ????