Introspection and Public Speaking
Charlie Starrett
Helping Professionals Speak with Confidence and Purpose | Empathetic Public Speaking Coaching | Keynote and TEDx Speaker Guidance | Leadership Coach | Keynote Expert | Author | Let's Connect!
If you have ever spoken to an audience with your heart racing, slowly realising that your carefully planned speech isn’t landing quite the way you’d hoped, remember - it’s an opportunity to grow, to learn and to become the speaker you want to be.
How, you ask?
The answer lies in one simple yet transformative practice - introspection.
Why Introspection Matters
As you know, introspection is the process of looking inward, reflecting on your thoughts, actions and experiences. And when you apply it to each of your public speaking experiences introspection becomes a powerful tool that can help you identify your strengths, recognise the areas for improvement and learn valuable lessons – again, from every speaking engagement. Introspection is like having a personal coach in your head guiding you towards excellence.
The Power of a Post-Speech Journal
One of the most effective ways to incorporate introspection into your public speaking routine is by keeping a post-speech section of your journal. After each speaking engagement take some time to jot down your thoughts. What went well? What didn’t? How did the audience react? Were there moments when you felt particularly confident or conversely, moments when you wanted to disappear into the floor?
Writing it down helps solidify the experience and makes it easier to analyse later.
Over time you’ll start to notice patterns. Maybe you’re consistently strong in your opening, but your energy dips midway through. Or perhaps you excel at engaging with the audience but struggle with pacing. These insights are gold.
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Tools such as SWOT Analysis are not just for Business!
If you’re a fan of structure using a SWOT analysis can take your introspection to the next level. SWOT stands for Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, and Threats. This tool is often used in business, but it’s equally effective for public speaking. Here’s how:
As you can see, by systematically analysing your performance you can turn each speaking engagement into a stepping stone toward becoming the confident speaker you want to be.
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Introspection Builds Confidence
Let’s talk about confidence. We all know that confident speakers captivate their audiences. But confidence doesn’t just materialise out of thin air. It’s built over time, through experience, practice and self-reflection.
When you take the time to introspect after each speech you’re actively investing in your confidence. You’re acknowledging your strengths and addressing your weaknesses. This process not only makes you a better speaker but also makes you more self-assured. In other words, you walk into your next speech with the knowledge that you’ve learned from the past and are better prepared this speech and for the future.
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Improve Your Delivery and Message
Your message is important. But how you deliver it? That’s the key to making it stick. Introspection allows you to fine-tune your delivery. Simply put, by reflecting on past speeches you can identify what delivery techniques resonate with your audience and which ones fall flat. Again your post-speech journal will be invaluable.
For instance, did you notice that pausing after a key point helped the audience absorb the information better? Or maybe you found that varying your tone kept people engaged. These insights are invaluable. They help you craft a delivery that not only conveys your message but does so in a way that’s memorable and impactful.
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Engage Your Audience More Deeply
Let’s face it, an engaged audience is a happy audience. And just like confidence, engagement doesn’t happen by accident. It’s the result of careful planning, execution, and - yes - introspection. By reflecting on how your audience responded during your speech you can identify strategies to increase engagement in the future.
For example, did the audience perk up during your Q&A session? Maybe you could incorporate more interactive elements into your speech. Did their eyes glaze over during a lengthy monologue? Time to rethink that section.
Introspection helps you become more attuned to your audience’s needs and preferences allowing you to connect with them on a deeper level.
When Introspection Goes Wrong - a Cautionary Tale
Before we wrap up, let me share a little cautionary tale about when introspection can go wrong. After a less-than-stellar speech, I went deep into introspection only to emerge feeling I was the worst speaker in the entire history of public speaking! Every flaw is magnified, every mistake feels catastrophic.
So here’s my message to you - introspection should be constructive, not destructive. The goal isn’t to beat yourself up but to learn and grow. Remember, even the best speakers have off-days. The key is to use introspection as a tool for improvement, not to beat yourself up!
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Conclusion - The Path to Public Speaking Success
Making introspection a vital part your public speaking routine is like having a secret weapon at your disposal. It helps you identify your strengths, address your weaknesses, and learn from every experience. By keeping a journal, using tools like SWOT analysis, and reflecting honestly on your performances you will continuously improve your skills, boost your confidence and engage your audience more effectively.
So, the next time you step off the stage, take a moment to introspect. It might just be the key to your future public speaking success. And if things don’t go as planned? Well, that’s just another opportunity for growth.
Master Storyteller, Public Speaker and Creative Writer
6 个月Another original, useful and uncommon tip from a real teacher of the craft. Excellent piece, Charlie.
Passionate Educator | Lifelong Learner & Mentor | Accidental International Networker
6 个月Insightful and informative Charlie. Close to the bone too, for me, at least. Confidence is, or was my superpower, yet two aspects of my public speaking, always led to the similar feedback. Eye Contact and pacing. For years I practiced both of these, to the point where sometimes it became mechanical, and my confidence slipped. Now though, after much introspection, I am comfortable, coherent, and confident, that I can please my audience and myself with each speech I give. ??