Intimacy = Abundance. Happy Valentines Day (yesterday)

Happy V-Day

I used to have a fear of intimacy.

I was afraid that if I showed up as “all of me”, if I let myself be fully seen - I wouldn’t be accepted.

I was told, be all the amazing woman you can be - but not too much or you won’t fit in.

I was told, don’t be too smart, boys don’t like that.

I was told everything wasn’t good enough. Dealing with being rejected on a daily basis takes a toll.

I put heart walls up just to protect yourself - more leather than lace most days.

When my heart energy was closed off, I attracted romantic partners that just validated me not being seen.

I mean, how could I be intimate with someone if I didn't allow them to see all of me. I held back the parts me that I thought would be judged or cause jealousy.

I would only allow occasional moments of openness, when it felt safe again, when I thought I wouldn’t get hurt again.

Only to experience another relationship that “proved” I was better off with my heart wall high.

Holding my heart closed, then open, then closed again to the energy of love was whip-lash to my soul + it was making my bank account look like a rollercoaster.

I never thought about intimacy being connected to abundance when I first started my online business, I didn’t think it would show up there too.

It wasn’t until I learned that by not allowing myself to be seen for my greatness, my wisdom + expertise, that I was attracting clients who didn’t knew the value of investing in themselves.

And until I saw that I was just holding me back from myself. I rewired the program that I didn’t believe I was worthy.

I learned how to shift my energy, knowing it was safe to be heart open so that my personal brand would attract what I really wanted - attracted the bad*ss, incredible, f*kin epic, warrior clients I have gotten to work with (you know who you are, babes).

That’s when it transformed my abundance, started being seen as a thought leader + elevated my business.

That’s when I started having $8K-$15k days, I will always remember my first $40K net month. That’s when I hit the infamous 6-figures.

More importantly, that’s when I felt like I was making a bigger difference in the world because the results my clients were getting within themselves.

That’s priceless.

“Marketing is the equivalent of asking someone on a date. Branding is the reason to say yes.” - REN JONES

This is the most accurate statement to understand how Personal branding is all about building + deepening relationships. Most importantly your relationships with YOU, how you see yourself.

Because it’s not the words they say, nor the sweet, subtle ways they say it, it’s an alchemy, a chemistry, an unspoken energy that attracts you.

It’s intimacy. It’s seeing the greatness in others + being unafraid to be seen. It’s how to you want people to FEEL with you, because emotions have impact.

How to attract the love you want…..

How to keep in flow of abundance…..

How to attract ideal clients…..or business partnerships

Starts with acknowledging the intimacy wound. (We’ve all have this, we can normalize it, it’s safe to say it) So that you can remaining heart open in the face of fears.

Aligning to the energy that’s a match for your ideal “partners, clients etc”…..so your “presence”, who you are, is a good fit.

And stepping into your identity of success - so your authentic “personality” shines through…..creating your profitable personal brand.

P.S.

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