Inner Conflicting Voices

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I want to share a deeply personal battle that many of us face daily, ?????? ?????????? ???????????????? ?????????????? ?????? ?????????????????????? ????????????.

My mentor, ????. ?????? ????????????, the author of "The Attractor Factor" and the President of Napoleon Hill Institute, calls them the monkey voice, the divine voice, and the voice we create for ourselves, the affirmation voice. This concept was new to me. I was only familiar with ???????????????? ?????? ???????????????? ????????-????????. But understanding these voices has changed how I navigate my inner world.

Here’s a glimpse into my inner dialogue, and maybe it will resonate with you too. After all, we’re all human beings with these voices inside us.

???????????? ??????????: "I am not enough. I am not qualified. I don't have what it takes. I am too old." With practice, I started recognizing these thoughts and feelings. I took a deep breath, relaxed, and listened to the whispers of the divine voice.

???????????? ??????????: "My heart desires it. I want it. I can do it. I am ready. Now is my time!"

???????????? ?????????? came back: "Hajer, you cannot do it. You will never know how to do it. How? How? Try to be real!” I breathed deeply to calm myself down.

???????????? ?????????? whispered again: “Hajer, you’re meant to do this. This is your life’s purpose. I know you can do it. Just do it.”

But the ???????????? ?????????? wasn’t done: “Don’t even try. You will embarrass yourself. People will laugh at you. People will criticize you!” I kept breathing, trying to calm my mind and relax. I started reacting to the ???????????? ??????????, but I reminded myself not to fall into its trap.

I was aware of this, but the whispers of the ???????????? ?????????? were fading.

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You know what I did?

I created the third voice, as ????. ?????? ???????????? taught me, the voice of affirmation and autosuggestion.

?????????????????????? ??????????: "I want it, and I will get it. Napoleon Hill said: ‘Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.’”

The ???????????? ?????????? tried again: “No, this is not for you. You need to learn more, read more, listen to more videos, attend more seminars, buy more programs, and get more certificates. You are not qualified. Don’t even start! Who do you think you are?"

?????????????????????? ?????????? screamed back: "I can do this! I can do this! Shut up! I am starting today. Watch me, I am going to do this!"

???????????? ?????????? warned: "You will be embarrassed. You’ve never done this before. It’s too late for you to have a successful business and build a legacy! Just be logical and honest. You need at least 10 if not 20 years. Just be realistic."

?????????????????????? ??????????, louder and more determined: "Shut up! I am already successful. I am doing it now. I am that woman. I am enough. I have what it takes. I got this!"

This internal battle is something many of us face. Negative self-talk can be crippling, but it doesn’t have to control you. Recognize these thoughts, challenge them, and replace them with positive affirmations. This is where emotional intelligence comes in.

Here is the key: Being aware of your emotions and managing them effectively. But I know it’s not easy to do this by yourself because you can’t see the full picture if you’re in the frame and you can read the label if you are inside the jar.

I’d been there. I thought I could do it by myself, but I couldn’t catch my negative self-talk and limited beliefs. Trust me it takes a lot of training, but once you learn how, it becomes easier to catch these voices.

If you’re struggling with overcoming negative self-talk and building the life you deserve, know that ?????? ?????? ?????? ??????????. ?? ?????????? ??????, ?? ?????? ??????, ?????? ?? ???????? ??????! It's never too late to start.

You don’t have to do it by yourself. I’m here to show you how. Just reach out, and let’s have a heart-to-heart conversation. Because you deserve what your heart desires.

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