Impressing vs. Expressing - A Confidence Conundrum ??

You're brimming with confidence, ready to conquer the world. ?? But as soon as you spot someone you want to impress, bam! The confidence takes a nosedive.

Is it just me, or does this happen to everyone?

Let’s explore why this happens and what we can do about it.

The Impressing Trap ??

When we're trying to impress someone, we often focus on external factors. ?? We worry about what we’re saying, how we’re dressed, and how we’re perceived. This can lead to self-doubt, anxiety, and even a loss of authenticity.

Think about it: When you're genuinely confident, you’re not trying to impress anyone. You’re just being yourself. And people are drawn to authenticity.

The Power of Expressing ???

Instead of focusing on impressing others, try expressing yourself. Share your thoughts, passions, and experiences. When you’re genuinely engaged in a conversation, it’s easier to be confident and relaxed.

Here’s a simple exercise: The next time you’re in a social situation, focus on listening more and sharing less. ??♂? You’ll be surprised at how much more confident you feel!

Remember: Confidence isn’t about being perfect. It's about being authentic, being yourself, and embracing your unique qualities.

Example

Imagine you’re at a family gathering, and your uncle—the self-proclaimed cricket expert—starts dissecting the latest match. ?? You might feel tempted to impress him with your "vast knowledge" of cricket statistics. But what if you actually don’t know much about cricket?

Instead of faking it, just admit your ignorance and ask him to tell you more. You might be surprised at how much he enjoys explaining it, and boom—you just connected without any pretension.

Sometimes, the best way to impress is by not trying to impress at all. ??

So, What Do You Think? ??

• Have you ever fallen into the "impressing" trap?
• How do you balance confidence with the desire to connect with others?

?? Drop your thoughts below, and let’s discuss! #Confidence #BeYourself #trap