The Impossible Child - Microtia Awareness Day

November 9th, it's a day that just last year passed me by. This year it means a lot. Its is Microtia Awareness Day

Those of you that know me personally will know that my 2nd Daughter was born 20th August. Being our second we initially thought it would just be like our first, plain sailing with no concerns. We weren't quite right with that. Unfortunately our first scan showed she was small and needed additional scans and had a potential issue with her kidney. She caused us many sleepless nights even before she was born worrying about what may or may not happen.

Coming up to Ada-Marie's due date, she was breached, now at this point we have two weeks remaining and we are told she has less than 3% chance of turning unaided. She turns with 10 days to go...

At this point we had decided to have a Caesarean section, long gone were our dreams of a calm relaxing home birth. Ada-Marie turning hadn't changed that plan, only complicated it somewhat. We were called in at the last minute due to having some space at Stoke Mandeville hospital and my wife gave birth the next day.

Those of you that have had a caesarean or been in the room will know just how strange it is to be speaking about one thing to the anaesthetist about the zoo and the next you are told you have a baby coming out. Now other than the surrealism that is a baby just appearing from my wife, I was just delighted to see that she was not the tiny baby that we feared she was going to be.

I straightway walked over to see her in her gory glory and noticed that she had some skin tags and an issue with her ear in addition to a port-wine stain (3 in 1,000 babies or 0.3%) above her right eye. At this point I haven't really thought much about it as she is minutes old and I am more interested in getting to hold her and show my incredible wife the daughter she has spent the last months caring for. We were then told that Ada-Marie had a 'True Knot' in her cord, meaning there were some very relieved midwives in the room that we elected for the c-section. This happens in just 1-2,000 pregnancies (0.05%).

Once we were back on to the ward I realised that there was more to the ear, and my wife noticed she has no ear canal. We mentioned this to the doctor and they had then mentioned for the first time, 'Microtia and Atresia'.

If, like me, you read these words and aren't sure what they are, you aren't alone. My wife and I didn't really know what it was despite having seen people first hand with this condition. For those that don't know, Microtia (Greek for ‘little ear’) is a malformation or misshape of the external part of the ear (pinna) and can vary in severity from the ear being smaller than expected to varying degrees of absence of the outer ear. There is no conclusive cause of Microtia. The odds of a child having Unilateral Microtia are 1 in 6,000?(0.016667%)

Ada's Microtia is not too severe, especially in comparison to some and her ear is mostly formed, as you can see. She does have a couple of skin tags and other than its cosmetics it doesn't cause her discomfort.

The more troublesome issue is that she has Aural Atresia as well, this is what has caused her lack of ear canal. This means she has conductive deafness in her right ear. Atresia is essentially the blocking of an orifice, it could be almost any in the body but in Ada-Marie it has presented on her ear. This ultimately means she will and already does struggle with sound direction, she finds it difficult with multiple sounds and so we have to remember to not play the Hamilton Soundtrack in the background when we are playing with her and we have to make sure she can see us to really be able to communicate with her. Aural Atresia occurs 1 in 10,000 babies (0.01%)

Both of these conditions happen in the first stage of pregnancy (around 9 weeks) and little is known as to why this happens and there is rarely any hereditary link. All of this happens during the same stage of pregnancy as kidney development, so very often any kidney issues are present in pregnancy, the ears will be at least checked. I can honestly say I hadnt thought about it before but the link between kidneys and ears is most definitely something new for me. Here is a link if you're interested in finding out more.

During our research we have found so many helpful resources from the Microtia UK website to facebook groups as well as free video sessions on bone conducting hearing aids . I would like to thank them all on behalf of Ada-Marie, my wife and I. They have been amazing and the community of people are all so very supportive and kind. Microtia scared us at first and tears were shed when we were told officially she is deaf. With the support and education that these sites, communities, consultants and families have given us, and seeing just how incredible Ada is, we are now comfortable with what it is. I want to say thank you to all of those and encourage you to help support these charities where you can.

With relation to Ada's Ongoing care; we have been referred to Great Ormond Street for any potential scans and we are embarking on a long road of tests and scans. We have also been referred to genetics to look for any potential syndromes that have caused the collection of issues Ada presents. We are on a journey of discovery but whatever that shows us, Ada has been and is so very happy throughout. She is developing perfectly and has given our family an incredible amount of joy already. She has shown strength and has allowed my wife and I the ability to grow and learn as well.

Thank you once again for reading what is a long post. Thank you, for spending the time on a cause that is close to me and my family. And finally thank you to Ada for teaching me to be stronger.

P.S. The bayesian maths behind finding the probability is slightly beyond my current Python skills, so I am not able to tell you the exact % of all these things happening together but eitherway, she really is an impossible (improbable) child.