I'm too old!
Christian Hampshire
Leadership Development | Helping Corporate, Education, and Non-profit Sectors Achieve Performance Improvement | Coaching Skills Training at InsideOut Development | Trail Running Fanatic
I constantly hear people giving excuses saying “they don’t have enough time” or “that they are too old”….. Those of you who know me, know that excuses are my biggest pet peeve. Well, aside from noisy eaters. Lately, I have been really intrigued about the present and especially after Kobe Bryant's death I have been thinking about how important and short life is for us.
Seneca’s life is worth looking at for anyone who thinks they missed their shot, who thinks it might be “too late” for them. Because in his early twenties, just as his career as a lawyer was taking off, Seneca was struck with a terrible blow of tuberculosis. He was sent away by his doctors to Egypt, where he spent the next ten years recovering. Eventually, he returned to Rome, and though many would have suspected his window had closed, he quickly made a name for himself as a politician and a philosopher.
Then, just as his career was taking off, he was banished to Corisca on trumped-up charges by jealous enemies. There he had to spend eight years, eight years of the prime of his life, on an island far away from home. Yet, he eventually returned to Rome, rebuilt and remade himself, and soon found himself one of the most powerful men in the world, advising the Emperor.
You might be sensing where this is going, but once again, at the height of his influence, he was forced to retire from Nero’s service, as the Emperor became increasingly unstable. Still, Seneca managed to re-dedicate himself to philosophy and publish some of his most brilliant works.
What Seneca’s life proves is something much more bluntly phrased in Gary Vaynerchuk’s viral video, “You’ve Got F*ing Time.” It might feel like you are too old, that things have not turned out like you planned, that you’ve been royally screwed by bad luck. And that may be so—but the fact remains that you still have time. You can still make something of this life. You can still be grateful for whatever—and how much ever—time you have left.
What if you had just woken up from a coma? What if you had just gotten exonerated and released from death row? What if you’d found out your cancer was in remission? Would you be thinking 'I'm getting a late start' or ‘woe is me?” Or would you be thinking, 'I'm so lucky. This is the beginning of my new life'?
There is no too late, not as far as ordinary life goes; just get started. Or get back to work. That’s all we can do.
President/COO
5 年Christian Live it! Thanks for the brilliant reminder!!
Vice President of Global Communications & Community Growth at MarketStar -- leader, communicator, catalyst
5 年So true...Ray Kroc did not buy his first McDonald's until he was 59. Julia Child published her first cookbook at age 50. Sam Walton founded Walmart when he was 44! Samuel L. Jackson didn't get his first movie role until he was 46! Crazy stuff can happen later in life, and as you said, you just have to get started -- or get back to work. Well said!!!
Partner at Triad Land Development
5 年Thanks for sharing Christian! I too have been reflecting on a lot of these concepts since the death of Kobe. I can't help but wonder if the silver lining in these types of tragedies is that they serve as a wake up call to the rest of us that there still is time to make the most out of our lives.