I’m Offended That You’re Offended By My "Offensive" Statements…
“That’s offensive.” “I’m outraged.” “This is an affront to decency!” “You’ve insulted my…blah, blah.”SHUT UP. I know you’ve all been hearing these types of statements a lot too. Amiright? They’re annoying and serve no actual purpose. They don’t advance us in any way.
Here’s the thing, believe it or not, I’m a human. That means I come with opinions and ideas that you don’t like. You probably come with opinions I don’t care for either. In fact, maybe you’re wearing Crocs right now and have the urge to explain to me how comfortable they are...
Side bar conversation: one time someone asked me what my secret weapon/special talent was…it’s pissing people off. I manage to do it easily. Often by accident. Sometimes on purpose. But not usually.
Anyway, here’s where you may start to dislike me…I’m an atheist. I’m pro-gun, pro-death penalty, pro-choice, pro equality. I’m strongly against ever purchasing a pet when you should be adopting one. I think candy corn is disgusting. I think Prince was an overrated artist. I’M A PATRIOTS FAN (by far my worst offense, I’m aware). I don’t think Trump is a Hitler reincarnate. I do think Hillary is not a nice person (privately of course, she’s too good a politician to let you know it for sure).
You can disagree with every single thing I said there. Doesn’t matter. We can still get along and treat each other well. We could still work together or be friends. So long as you are a good and kind person, I don’t really care how much we disagree. Or if you put Crocs on your feet. Sigh.
Too many people think it’s totally unacceptable to share your thoughts, feelings and opinions publicly. Why? It’s okay if you disagree with me (on everything except the ‘adopt don’t shop’ point). It’s okay if you don’t like what I have to say. You don’t have to pay attention to me. You can voice your own opinion. You don’t have to be offended by every damn thing you see and hear. Let people share their truths, feelings and opinions. That’s how we innovate, that’s how we connect. Don’t make human beings compartmentalize and only share curated parts of themselves. I want to see the whole being. So what’s up?
Tell me how I offended you at [email protected] or on Twitter, @caitmackcs.
Nationally recognized author and speaker on Strategic Business Models. Noted small business coach/advisor, growth authority.
8 年Amen!, Cait. Seems that the majority of people these days think that freedom of speech is only for those who agree with them on all points. Get a life, people. Listen to others and perhaps you can learn something. Share with them and they might learn something too. Peace on earth!
Mindset Maven at Lela Hightower Coaching
8 年Keeping authenticity comes with its critics, girl. I absolutely LOVE your approach to things. PC is expected at all times to many. The thing is, when you worry about others feelings when it comes to your opinion, you water yourself down. You have ALWAYS kept it real. Don't change that. Your true tribe will hear you!!
Coastal sea kayak and Greenland paddling instructor
8 年I learned years back to be myself. I can come off as cocky and arrogant. I am not afraid to say what I think or to let taboo words come out in my writing or presentations. I don't dress up when I present. I am me. I am authentic. You get to know me. It turns some off (OK, many or even most) but those who aren't - I have some of the best personal and business relationships with these people. As a marketer, you know or should know you will never reach everyone. I made the process easy. Who I am and how I behave thins the herd. I can focus on those who are interested in me or my message. I am genuine. I am in person who you see on line and vice versa. Love this Cait Mack!
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8 年I don't know.. I'm just... offended. LOL