I’m Not a Counsellor – I’m a Coach, and Here’s Why That Matters

I’m Not a Counsellor – I’m a Coach, and Here’s Why That Matters

I want to address something that’s been on my mind for a while now: the difference between what I do as a coach and what a counsellor does.?

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This distinction is crucial, and I feel strongly about it because too many people seem to misunderstand the nature of my work.

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In coaching, we do explore past experiences and beliefs, but the focus is not on dwelling in the past.?

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Instead, it’s about understanding those experiences so we can move forward.?

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Coaching is all about growth and action.?

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It’s about taking what we learn about ourselves and using that knowledge to overcome obstacles, build confidence, and create the life we truly want.

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I’ve noticed that some people assume my role is simply to listen to their problems.?

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They come to sessions expecting to vent, thinking that’s where the work ends.?

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Let me be clear: coaching isn’t just about talking through issues – it’s about finding solutions.?

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It’s about taking responsibility for your own growth and being willing to put in the effort to change your mindset and behaviours.

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I’m here to support you, to challenge you, and to guide you toward a more empowered way of thinking.?

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But if you’re not willing to engage in the deeper work – to tackle the internal blocks, do the homework I give all my clients, and actively participate in your own development – then nothing will change.?

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You’ll find yourself stuck in the same place, dealing with the same problems, week after week.

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That’s why I’m so passionate about this difference.?

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Counselling provides a valuable space to process emotions and find comfort in being heard.?

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Coaching, however, is about taking action.?

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It’s about doing the work to create real, lasting change in your life.

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If you’re ready to take control of your life, break free from old patterns, and truly commit to your personal growth, then that’s where I come in.?

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I’m not just here to listen – I’m here to help you find solutions, challenge your thinking, and support you in making the changes you need to succeed.

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Remember, progress doesn’t come from simply talking about what’s wrong.?

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It comes from being willing to dig deep, confront the beliefs that are holding you back, and do the work necessary to transform.?

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That’s what coaching is all about.


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