Idiots are confident. geniuses are...

Idiots are confident. geniuses are always confused and curious.

No Idea what I'm talking about. then Read On.

I was talking to my boys yesterday while having breakfast I asked my elder son Aarav "what is the best way to live life"

Aarav-" no idea dad"

Let me explain with an example. suppose two people were given the task to prepare tea. both are equally experienced in preparing tea. both were given the same ingredient like sugar, water, milk and Tea. one person makes a better tea than the other.

what is the difference?

Aarav -"still no idea dad"

The difference is awareness. how aware are you in the present moment. Are you busy in mind all the time thinking about something else while preparing tea that's make the difference?

Same applies to life. Nature or God has given you all the ingredients of a successful life to all of us. If you are aware then you can create anything. If you are aware of how business work you will run a successful business. same applies to your health and your relationship. You will live your best life. If you are not aware then you will make your life miserable. so It's only you who is responsible for your life, no one else. ( maybe you are unaware so you won't agree to what I'm saying. you will blame someone else).

So how can one become more aware in every moment? Lets first understand that awareness is a consequence of curiosity. if you become curious awareness is natural.

Three things you can do

1) Question what you already know- Most of the time when we come across any new information. we say in our mind " Oh I know this". That's the biggest problem. Instead, tell yourself "what you already know may be wrong"

2) Get your body active- When your body is active it naturally becomes curious. have you noticed when you are tired after workout after some time you feel good because your mind stops thinking too much. you become curious.

3) Put yourself in other people's shoes when talking to them.- This is the best practice one should take if they want to improve their relationship. Ask yourself " If i were at his/her place how would I react"

What do you think? Share your opinion. DM Me.