I wonder?why…

Events, moments, morning, evening, dawn, dusk, sleep, and being awake. There is always something happening. There is movement. There is rhythm. There is life.

They say that everything happens for a reason. People take challenges as obstacles, I take them as opportunities and I wonder why.

Weathers bring changes in our life patterns. Dark cloudy weathers tend to bring a kind of stress. Yet clouds bring rain and life. I take it as a blessing. The four seasons are like a perfect symphony, each moving one one and another in a rhythm. I have seen relationships becoming seasonal. Spring’s fragrance and innocence, Summer’s heat and exuberance, Autumn’s leaves and reverence, Winter’s snows and perseverance, and I wonder why.

If you want to see behaviour of a city, country or a nation, observe their traffic behaviours. It sets the tone of being either in a hurry, or staying in a lane. I observe the behaviour by watching people smile when they are on the road, and I find very few people smiling, and I wonder why.

Our new generations seems to know it all through Google, Facebook and other channels of communication. They have a lot of information but very little knowledge. I tend to read to learn and smile, I know less but I can apply this knowledge and I wonder why.

We have started to listen and react and not to understand. I say listen to learn as well as learn to listen and I wonder why.

People do not share information or knowledge with the fear that someone will get better than them. People say knowledge is power. I say that knowledge grows by sharing and I wonder why.

We have started living to eat rather than eating to live. I say always eat two bites less, and I wonder why.

We put on weight and are stressed most of the time. I say keep your mind at ease and keep your feet warm. Walk every day and do not count steps, just walk, and I wonder why.

It takes 43 muscles to frown and 17 to smile. Always smile, do not let people know what is inside your mind and heart. Smile forever and I wonder why.

The sun will always rise from the east and rest in the west. Do not try to change the world. Change yourself and the world will smile upon you and I wonder why.

Coke and Fanta, Coffee and Tea, Champagne and Cognac are all drinks. You can take them in a limited amount, as more is not better. Try to have a zero calorie drink which helps you to look better. This zero calorie drink is called water and I wonder why.

People say respect elders. You always get a smile and best wish from them and I wonder why.

We have shifted from combined family system to nuclear family units. Call you parents and tell them how much you love them not only on mother’s or father’s day. You only get them once and I wonder why.

Allah, our creator has a reason for every event. Do not do things that HE is supposed to do as you will not be able to do that if you try to take HIS role. He knows best and He is with us all the time, and here I do not wonder why.

We now discuss about jobs, traffic, stress, and have taken out the music that flows with the breeze, roses, morning walks, and dancing in the rain. I say read a good book, poetry and listen to the sound of the rain, the silent wind and the depth of the eyes, and I wonder why.

There are moments in your life when nothing else matters. These moments hold the universe, yet they are as gentle as a smile and as delicate as the look of the eyes of the one whom you long to meet and I wonder why.

Friends are not made over social platforms. You find them and you spend the life of your time sharing the unimaginable, walking through the woods and dancing on the beat. But then these are relationship which are made with hearts of gold and I am lucky to have one and I do not wonder why.

The say that love is passion, obsession, something you can not live without. I was told to fall heads over heels, and find someone I would love like crazy and she would love me back the same way a million times over. I said, “where do I find this person?”. They said, “She is right in front of you. Feel her and see her blind steps towards you”. I asked, “Does she see me as I am also in front of her?”. Love is unconditional. There is no sense living without this. We both will make the journey and fall deeply in love. Such is the depth that without it, living is like not living a life. You have to try or you would have not lived at all, and I wonder why…..