I want to let you into a little secret... ??

...So many of us have this all wrong!

We convince ourselves that we need to take our time when making BIG decisions??. Today I am going to introduce you to a different, more liberating approach, which will help you to feel much happier and more fulfilled ??..

For the first 40 years of my life, I would take my time when making decisions.? Surely it's better to get lots of different people's opinions. To consider things from every single different angle!!! I'm not sure about you, however I would then find myself, going over and over everything. And then I would make my excuses and convince myself that I needed more time. It was exhausting… ??

Last week I felt myself falling back into this old habit.? I had been considering HOSTING my own Face 2 Face events for some time. I found myself thinking.

? Is now the right time?

? Would it be sensible to commit to something else right now?

? Will people show up?

And then I spotted what was happening.???

I reminded myself, that hosting events like this, is something I would LOVE to do…. I love the idea of hosting inspirational events, where individuals SHIFT their mindset and focus on possibilities. Where individuals develop the confidence and self-belief to go after what they really want.

And so I decided to book a venue for my first face to face event, on the 13th February, and to go ALL IN!!!!???

At this stage, I have no idea "HOW" I will pull this off. However I can’t describe how excited I feel about this.???

I have learnt, that we often ask other people for their advice, because of our own insecurities. We seek re-assurance, however this can have the opposite effect. Just think of all those occasions, when you have really wanted to try something new, and a friend or family member has suggested that you play it safe. All this does is create more doubt ??.

WE are the only ones who know our real wants, dreams and desires. If you want to become happier and more fulfilled, you have to start to listen to that voice inside.

This takes me back to the time when I started my business in May 2021. At the time my wife was not working, and we were expecting our 4th child. If I has asked 10 people, whether now was a good time to start a business, what do you think most of them would have said??? I discovered, that this was a decision only I could make. And therefore for the first time ever!!!!! Aside from my wife Melissa, I did not tell a soul. And this proved to be one of the best decisions I have ever made ????.

Often we KNOW deep down what we really want to do, however we can listen those doubts, and the outcome is we often remain stuck.

I want to finish, by encouraging you to think about HOW you want the year 2024 to play out for you. Rather than asking others what you "think" you should do... Take some time out and be still. And start to think about what YOU really want ??.

If you would like some help with this process, I am delighted to share that I am hosting my latest LinkedIN Live event on the 25th January. The theme "Taking a Big Leap in 2024"??. This event has proved extremely popular, and so be sure to register before it is too late ????

https://www.dhirubhai.net/events/takingthebigleapin20247148624956157825024/theater/

Have a fantastic weekend

Tony