I Want...

As you may have seen, I've been writing and sharing some lists recently.

Tools to help you (and me) connect with your deepest desires, everything holding you back and the energy you need to turns those dreams, those inspired thoughts into things.

This has been so much fun!?

It's also been so empowering to truly live into one of our mantras -?Slow down to speed up.

To experience the incredible creativity that comes from having an abundance of space.

Something I've inadvertently had over the past 4 weeks.

So many amazing ideas have emerged in that time.

I've felt truly inspired and in flow.

My latest list is simply called?I WANT...

And it ties in with one of the most powerful questions I know, that is equally simple and challenging to answer -?What do you want?

It's a magical exercise where you write down 100 things that you want.

A challenge to do in one sitting.

In my and most peoples experience, the first 3rd comes relatively easily.

That's the surface level desires.

The 2nd 3rd comes with some resistance.

But the magic is in the 3rd 3rd.?

Those desires that seem too good to be true, scary, make you feel guilty to speak into the world or so wild to seem not possible.

Over the next few days, find some space to write down your list.

Start small if you have to and write 5 things.

OR even just 1 thing to get you started.?

Here's a pro tip.

Once you start the list, have something with you at all times that you can write or type on when an idea for your list comes to mind.?

That way it becomes more of a habit to connect with your desires.

I'm excited to share my list with you.

I started writing this around 6 week ago.

It's taken me a good few weeks to get it to this point.

A sign of how much resistance can be present simply by saying I WANT...!

See what you notice within yourself as you read through them.

Remember, this is all about letting go of what gets in your way and giving yourself permission to be creative, be happy and go for what you want:

I WANT...

1. To feel free.
2. To express myself freely. ?
3. To feel happy and thrilled as often as possible. ?
4. To have memorable, thrilling experiences as often as possible.
5. To feel looked after. ?
6. To feel like I'm making a difference. ?
7. To have a space to work from that's my own. ?
8. To regularly do something for me. ?
9. To feel warm and be in a warm place most of the time.
10. To have a house with all the space we need as a family.
11. To be debt free.
12. To dive with manta rays in the pacific ocean.
13. To feel alive and live a full life. ?
14. To become a 10/10 person, instead of an 8 or 9 out of 10.
15. The house to be freshly painted, inside and out.
16. To get some new carpets in the house.
17. For me, Jenni and the girls to know how to feel without it becoming harmful.
18. To have a mentor. Someone to pass on wisdom around entrepreneurship, integrating your whole self into your life and business, being your unique, unorthodox, unapologetically joyful, awesome self! To call me out on my own BS, to push me (when I need it) to play a BIG GAME, to keep me playing FULL OUT! ?
19. Adventure!
20. To be surrounded with courageous people playing full out themselves.
21. To create better leaders the world needs and deserves.??
22. To have a well kept, luscious green lawn in our garden (this is already manifesting from 4 weeks ago if you saw?the before and after pics today!). ?
23. To have a space where I can play with music. ?
24. To know how to play music through zoom (I didn't know at the time of writing, but now I do!). ?
25. To bring music, adventure, travel, courage, creativity, high vibes & full thrilling experiences into my coaching every day.
26. To ask for and create what I really REALLY want!??
27. To share my energy & joy, to help others enjoy themselves everyday. ?
28. To help 7/10s & 8/10s become 10/10s!
29. A new laptop. ?
30. A hot tub. ?
31. A quality camera. ?
32. New golf clubs & to play more often.
33. To combine playing golf and coaching clients.
34. To drive a modern silver Morgan (to see if I'd love to own one in the future).
35. To drive a black AC Cobra for the weekend.
36. To know with clarity who my people & dream clients are (some clarity has recently emerged on this...see below)! ?
37. A pair of brown/camel coloured boots to wear day to day (I manifested two as a leader I coached very kindly sent me a gift voucher, which I used to purchase them! ??). ?
38. To have more colourful clothes. ?
39. To live into a deep sense of gratitude and appreciation every day. ??
40. A 3 in 1 jacket to go with black jeans. ?
41. To take clients on transformational adventures to Canada, The Amazon Jungle, Ibiza, Madagascar & music festivals/events.
42. To take Jenni and the girls to these wonderful places too!
43. To spend my time doing the things I love & bring me joy so I never feel I have to "retire". ?
44. To always be there & present for my girls and the people I love. ?
45. To bring high value, be of service & create unforgettable experiences for everyone I connect with.
46. To feel as energised, joyful & have as much fun, if not more, in my 80s as I do in my 30s & 40s!
47. To always feel loved, valued, supported, understood, connected & that I'm making a positive difference in the world, I'm fulfilled & leaving something IN others.
48. To believe that anything positive anyone ever says about me is true. ?
49. To know exactly what makes me awesome, what my unique gifts are and live through them every day.
50. To remove every obstacle that holds me back from being great!
51. To have a healthy relationship with food.
52. To know exactly what I need to nourish my mind, body, heart & spirit every day.
53. To live beyond 120 still highly physically & mentally able, still making a difference to others.
54. Our ice dispenser at home to miraculously start working again! ***THIS ACTUALLY HAPPENED*** ???
55. To feel completely in flow in life & business all the time.
56. To spend all my "work" time in powerful, fun, transformational conversations and experiences.My girls to live long, full, happy lives well beyond my years.
57. Some Haribo Susse Mause because you can't get them in the UK unless shipped from Germany. ?
58. To be able to enjoy Haribo Sweets as an adult like I did when I was a kid - without the intense heartburn!
59. To take my girls on a road trip through Germany & show them where I grew up.
60. To not feel guilty about writing all of this! ?
61. To be able to dance, look good doing it, for years to come & not care if I don't.
62. To DJ & coach in front of a big audience at least once in my life.
63. To sky dive again.
64. To ride a motorbike.
65. To curate playlists that represent and express dream clients past, present and future. ?
66. To be a badass, no BS coach with no more than 5 1:1 clients at any time who each pay me ￡5k p/m. ?
67. A team around me who can support me with everything outside my zone of genius - fine details of planning, organising & coordinating magical, transformational trips & experiences (we're about to make our first hire this week!!! ??).
68. To take a group on a fun filled trip to Berlin.
69. To hug everyone I love and meet. ?
70. My wife Jenni to feel like the goddess that she is.
71. A house with a view.
72. A replacement or upgraded version of capitalism, without the limitations.To die with a smile.
73. To have a relaxing night away with my beautiful wife (which happened a week past Saturday, a perfect day ??). ?
74. To hang out with my friends more.??
75. To go trampolining with my girls. ?
76. To meet and spend time with Jurgen Klopp.
77. To thank my wife Jenni in such a way that demonstrates the depth ofmy love and gratitude for her. ?
78. To have an awesome 40th birthday this (now last) week with my friends and family.??
79. DJing equipment at home.
80. To have a thriving community of Heart Centred Leaders.
81. To support?Gillian?Thomson?to fulfil her incredible potential and deepest desires.
82. To support everyone we love and work with to do the same.
83. No one to have to suffer for the comfort of others.
84. Slavery to no longer be a thing, ever again!
85. My girls to have no limitations to their thinking and opportunities.?
86. Everyone to have access to high quality education.
87. Everyone to have access to and learn the incredible high level communications skills that come with the practise of coaching, mindfulness and knowledge of neuroscience.
88. Everyone to discover and live into their unique gifts and talents.
89. To live a created life.
90. To create Heart Centred organisations.
91. To bring what I know is possible through music, story telling, connection and coaching into the world through my Music Mapping idea. ?
92. To combine Music Mapping with an idea Gillian is working on around story telling.
93. To work with the "Children of Success", 2nd, 3rd or 4th generation entrepreneurs, leaders, creatives and performers.
94. Support them in?unburdening themselves and uncovering their secret dreams & unique talents which take them to their next levels of success.
95. To help them experience whats possible for themselves, through love, rather than pain, like I experienced.
96. To create a podcast, a book, a documentary, a community and solutions to support these people.To be the DJ for your dream life! ??

What's on your list?

What do you want?

Want to know how you get in the way or connect with what you put in the way of what you want? Check out this article and complimentary list writing exercise that is super powerful!

If you're TIRED of being pulled in every direction, expected to solve peoples problems and have all the answers. If you're SICK of yes people, you don't have someone to REALLY listen to you and challenge your thinking. If you're FRUSTRATED you have no space to think, you've hit a ceiling in your ability to grow your business (and yourself), you're working in your business, not on your business... Let's Dance!