I trust others to the level I trust myself
Zeahlot Lopez
??? Mentoring powerful women with legacy, impact, & income through leadership and identity transformation. Founder @TheVidaSystem & @business.and.pleasure
I trust others to the level, I trust myself?to be of my word and complete what I agreed to.
That’s my problem.
At least, that’s the conclusion I came to once I pieced together with my therapist has been trying to tell me for years.
When I was little, my parents made me so independent that I learned how to trust myself to make it happen really young!
It helped me get where I am today, but let me tell you that it has bitten me in the ass more than once trusting people to help me with my business that I probably shouldn’t have.
A part of me feels like I had to learn that lesson to put it in my back pocket and pull it out when I need it .
Another part of me feels like I just had to go through it as long as I needed to over and over the same lesson until I learned to have compassion and understanding for why people are not of their word.
It was so selfish of me to think that everybody was like me, and honored their word as much as humanly possible.
We’re human we make mistakes.
The beauty of working with people that cocreate with you is understanding that the most important part of the relationship is not business, but how we human.
I’ve also had the pleasure of working with many entrepreneurs that have helped me in my business far beyond what I ever imagined!
Learning formulas and shit that I don’t even even know how it works, but they do magic for our accounting department!
I’m so excited to connect further with professionals that are indeed passionate about helping business owners, and are open as well to growing within their business and person !
Building a business is indeed spiritual!
I see you,
You see me,
I love you,
Zeahlot
A visionary international speaker, mentor, author, and retired psychotherapist dedicated to women’s development.
With over a decade of experience, she has established multiple businesses and mentored hundreds of women globally.
A first-generation Mexican American, she holds a Master’s in Counseling Psychology and advanced leadership studies from USC.
Blending academic rigor with real-world experience, she delivers powerful messages on leadership, business, and mental health. As CEO of Business and Pleasure Inc., Zeahlot has transformed countless lives, particularly for culturally diverse and first-generation women. She lives in Las Vegas with her partner Morgan and their dog Max.
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