I was stuck for many years, living a very unhappy and unfulfilled life, because I didn't know this...

This was holding me back, and I suffered for many years...

When growing up most of us experienced criticism, judgment, shame, rejection, abuse (of any kind), etc, etc, etc.

As we believe we are the center of the universe, as kids, we think that everything is our fault.

Hence, the mind makes up negative, limiting, and false beliefs around the negative experiences we went through.

As kids we can't tell ourselves, "dad is yelling at me because he had a bad day", or "dad is telling me to shut up because that is how he was raised"...

I had many negative beliefs in my subconscious mind, I wasn't even aware of.

"I am not good enough"

"I am not lovable"

"There is something wrong with me"

"I don't deserve"

"I am a failure"

And so many other negative narratives it creates in the subconscious mind.

These stay in the back of our head for the rest of our life, because we didn't deal with it.

That creates our belief system.

The mind will take actions according to the belief system.

As I had a negative image about myself, I would feel that I couldn't achieve things, that good things can't happen to me, etc, etc.

So I screwed up my relationships, screwed up my finances, the businesses I wanted to get going, etc.

I didn't want to be another guy stuck for the rest of my life.

So I tried MANY things to be able to move forward, but nothing seemed to work.

Meditation, breathwork, affirmations, being positive, EFT, and so many...

It was in 2003 when I started learning at a deep level how the mind works... and about the negative programs (narratives) we have in there.

When I started working on identifying my belief system, I was shocked on the negative programs I found in there.

Many of the ones I shared above.

My past memories had many negative beliefs around myself, around love, money, success, failure, rejection, etc.

I had a very low self-esteem, and was running after external results to feel good about myself.

That drained me, made me feel good for a little, but then made me feel more empty inside.

It was when I started working on changing my belief system, by first developing self-awareness.

You need to dive deep into the mind and question your entire belief system, to be able to understand what you think around love, money, relationships, success, etc.

Most people don't know what they know, till they dive deep into the subconscious mind.

You can think that money is good and that you deserve money (consciously), but subconsciously you might reject money.

As I questioned my belief system, and started to reprogram, my life began to change in amaing ways.

I had been married once, in a very negative relationship / codependent, but when I started doing this work I met an old flame, where we got married and started an amazing family.

Living in the big city, not happy, to moving to the mountains to my dream place.

Striving with my business, to a very successful one, and then starting another very successful second business.

Feeling much more confident, self-aware , happy, and much more.

You need to deal with your past if you really want to make changes in your life.

Your past negative memories can be addressed and reprogrammed, that is what brought long-lasting change to my life.

Let me know what you think.

Tommy - The Mind Engineer