I Love Your Ordinariness

We do things for the one we love, but sometimes just being there expresses even deeper love. Give the gift of your full presence.

Love her without "What if," without calculation, without second-guessing, without comparing her to others.

A casting director auditions many actors but recognizes the right one as soon as he walks in. It can be the same with a new house,a diamond ring, a future spouse. If you are hesitant, then you might not have found the right one yet.

Love comes naturally and effortlessly. If you try to love someone, then it is not real until you stop trying.

If something is meant to blossom into a relationship, it usually works out without much difficulty.If you are the only one putting in effort, then let him go. This may relieve the pressure, and motivate him to make effort.If not, then it will open up a new path for you.

Love means loving someone the way she is.Wanting her to be a certain way is not love but your desire. Do not attempt to improve someone in the name of love. It is improvement only in your eyes, not in hers.

At times we are not sure whether what we feel is love. At that moment, ask yourself this: "Am I happy to give more even after having given a lot?" If the answer is yes, and there is no regret afterward, then that is probably love.

Without love, our lives would pass by in the blink of an eye. Love has the power to stop the world for a moment.

One summer night, I look up and focus on one star out of many. That star also chooses to look at me, out of all the people on earth. A meeting between two people is like this, a rare cosmic event. It is one in a million, a billion, a trillion.