How many times have you said to yourself, “I wish I knew this then because I would’ve made a better choice or gone in another direction”?
There are many people walking around with regret, wishing they could turn back the hands of time and reverse past decisions. The reality is that we make the best decisions at the time based on our current information, intuition, or just pure not wanting to appear indecisive.
Believe me, I am not regretting the path that I have taken. I am just reflecting on where I have been.
These insights are for Gen Y (that’s you, Millennials) and Gen Z. Enjoy.
- If I knew then, what I know now… I would’ve finished my degree at Morehouse College in four years instead of goofing off the second semester of my freshman year by going from a 3.0 GPA to a 1.8 GPA. You probably wonder how there could be such a dramatic drop in my GPA after one semester. I could accredit that to laziness, little motivation, and wanting to discover all that college life had to offer, aka, spending too much time at Spelman College, all-male Morehouse’s all-female sister school.
- If I knew then what I know now… I would’ve invested $1,000 in Home Depot stock in 1990 when my friend Mercedes asked me to. I decided not to because a thousand dollars to me back then was like $100,000. I couldn’t see far enough down the road to invest for the long haul.
- If I knew then what I know now… I would’ve asked my leaders in all of my previous jobs these questions:a. What is the strategic direction of the company?b. What should I do to position myself as a viable asset to the company?c. What problems do customers continue to say plague them?
- If I knew then what I know now… I would’ve been more intentional about networking with other cast members (employees) at Disney instead of just staying connected to those in my immediate department.
- If I knew then what I know now… I would’ve learned Spanish in addition to German when I was in high school and college. Of course, now it’s possible with Duolingo.
- If I knew then what I know now… I would’ve obtained a passport at 21 years of age instead of 31 and lived overseas in Singapore, Australia, Paris, or South Africa for a couple of years before returning to the United States.
- If I knew then what I know now… I would have started a side hustle sooner in life, even during my years at Disney and other companies I worked for.
- If I knew then what I know now… I would’ve focused on my core passion right out the gate instead of meandering around life, relationships, careers, and thinking. However, I must say, as I look back, the meandering was truly a gift.
- If I knew then what I know now… I wouldn’t have taken myself so seriously. I would have focused on enjoying life a bit more.
What about you? I’m curious to hear about your gems of revelation as you look back and wish on what you could’ve known. Please post in the comments below. We all could learn from your wisdom.
Ready to shape your own destiny and supercharge your career? I invite you to join me on an empowering journey through my course, 'Thrive@Work' on
CoursifyX
. Discover the keys to unlocking your potential by uncovering your distinctive BrillianceDNA.? Don't wait – take control of your future now!
It is time to CRUSH 2024! Brilliant Coaching? is hosting CRUSH 2024, a transformative experience of self-discovery and empowerment, charting the course for your most extraordinary 2024. Throughout this journey, expect a wealth of precious insights, pro tips, and inspirational content in our blogs, captivating social videos, and much more. Check out more information here.
Social Media Manager??Author??Blogger ??Podcast Host & Coach ?? Professional Speaker??Content Creator??
1 年Wow, I don't even want to go down that road because had I made any changes based upon what I know now, I probably wouldn't be married for 33 years and the mother of two amazing sons....however, I should have invested more in Apple when I was employed with IBM but they were our rivals....lol
Global Meat Operations & Retail Expert | Leading Consumer-Centric Growth | Driving Collaborative Progress in Fresh Categories
1 年Love number 4 Simon!
Audit Manager at CBD & remotely
1 年Even now if you say to yourself I am so much wiser than I was 10…15…20 years ago. But in 5 years time you will look back on 2023 and you will be even wiser then- there is always learning to do , and more so if you are seeking to grow personally .
Expert Customer Experience Management Training ? Mystery Shopping & Business Assessments ? Event Services
1 年Great article. I can think of many things I would have done differently
Interesting read. Thank you for sharing. Dreams do not have an expiration date. Life is a journey.. Enjoy the ride. Be safe and be well. Be encouraged you are a Difference Maker .