I have learnt many things from life

Let me tell you whether you like it or not but you acquire habits, and characters or even behaviors of people around you automatically, and the ones you stay with at hostel or study together at college, mostly unknowingly. One should not believe in best friends / true friends. Here I won't say they don't exist but believing that they do will ruin your life when they don't meet your expectations because everyone is busy with their own stuff, some or other problem in their lives. Even if they care, no one is going to think about you before themselves and why would they so it's better to be your own best friend

Moreover, you should balance your studies and whatever fun you have at college ,extreme of either is bad for you in long term..those are the years when you have all the potential ,time and energy both to invest in whatever you want ,to discover yourself. This I learnt it's wise to not believe in god,ghosts,supernatural power, superstitions, astrology because that makes you believe that certain things are fixed and can't be changed which makes you dependent, less efficient and you don't even try certain things because so and so says so and you miss so many beautiful experiences (it could be watching a lunar eclipse, abandoning widows, not being restricted to do certain activities during menstrual periods)

Although there is no point in arguing about religion, caste and politics with anyone because most of them who argue about belong to the one and few like me don't care about any so arguing about these takes you nowhere and unnecessary wastes your time and energy and spoils your relations. Though you take one course for your graduation you can always explore whatever streams you find interest in on internet or any other way you can ,you can pursue them as hobbies ..you have got only one life and you should try to maximize your experience of all the available things (not the ones you know will harm you for sure including smoking drugs and anything that will lead you to jail).

You don't need to have a reason to be happy, happiness is a choice, you can have everything perfect in your life and still feel low and vice versa. People generally don't care much about what you say unless it's something about them. Mainstream education is more important than any extra curricular activity. Love someone having some common interests. Never die or sacrifice your everything for people, 1947 has passed some ages ago. Keep something for yourself while giving to someone.

Performing in big stages in big functions gives you temporary fame. Believe me, I used to be a constant performer. But my time has passed and now the new generation is ruling the stage. Never compare people in love . Believe it or not, if you find your partner to be weaker than someone in a particular field,the very next day you will find another one to be more stronger and smarter. Comparison goes on like a chain and you will never be satisfied. Instead of comparing, try to endorse and encourage yourself and your partner to achieve what you don't have right now. Homemade food is the best. Live in a hostel and you will get to know why. Don't make too many friends. Friend squad should have quality not quantity.

Be polite- to your friends as well as enemies. Respect your parents no matter what their qualifications are. Don't get married too early (at the age of 20–25). Don't be a public puppet. Don't get busy in unnecessary talks because after a long conversation you'll never be able get over it. Kind of addiction you can say. Be productive every second else the world will not take much time to leave you behind. “I will dress according to my choice” - doesn't mean you will walk around the streets half naked. Maintain your serenity. You look better when covered with proper cloths. A beautiful smile can draw more attention than a naked body. Social media is not for showing curves to people. Honestly, If I were a boy I would never had good impression on a girl revealing her body unnecessarily in public.

Never put your personal opinion against someone in public. It will backfire you for sure. You can be open in case of supportive opinion. “Love is not blind” but keep your mind healthy and practical. Do not date someone just because you find him/her cute. Practically judge the decision of staying together forever. We have ample time to equip us mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. I have not continued it for long anytime in past during professional life but I feel like conquering the world, whenever I do it . I have again started this habit for last 20 days. Hoping to continue it forever. Currently I am feeling much more energetic than past even after making double efforts and less sleep.

Basically never compare yourself with anybody. I always focus on self improvement rather than comparison or competition with anybody. I am never in rush or need to prove anybody about anything. I am blessed with unique sets of strengths and weaknesses like all and my focus remains on improving my strengths and decreasing my weaknesses. I feel happy and successful when I perform my best and also when my current performance is better than the past. Cheers!