I am unique. I have no competition. I have a voice.
María G. Gayoso
INTIMACY & AUTHENTICITY COACH FOR MEN??Helping conscious men experience a more fulfilling life through the connection to their truest self and their highest purpose ?? ?Consciousness Activist
Everyone is unique; every thing is unique. And I don't say this casually. This is true, from any approach or field of knowledge we want to look at it.
[This article is just my perspective on a specific subject on a specific day. I hope you enjoy it and that it adds value to your life in any possible way]
Every human, and therefore, every business is unique. Every service. Every product.
I am a walking living brand. I have tangible assets such as my physical body, and intangible ones such as… everything else. I am the essence of all the things that I do. All of my services—and my future products—are and will be infused with this thing called 'me.'
No-one can be me, so no-one can copy me.?
How many coaches are out there in the world? According to the International Coaching Federation's last research, the '2020 ICF Global Coaching Study',?there were 71,000 practitioners by the end of 2019; and growing!
I don’t believe for a second that any of them are my competition.?
Other coaches don’t have my voice, they don’t have my eyes, they don’t have my hands, they don’t use the same words that I use, they don’t combine them as I do, they don’t think as I think,?they have not been where I’ve been, they don’t know what I know, they don’t perceive what I perceive, they don’t have the same gifts, they don’t sound like I do—even when in silence.
Have I gone too far now?? I hope not. This is true (at least it is to me): even when we are quiet and still, we are 'sounding', we are 'telling' something; because we have our unique energy—and still we are inseparable, all living within the same universal field of energy. This is true whether our human mind understands it or not, or cares to understand it at all (Our biggest problem as humans is not that we don’t know, it is that we are too scared to know what we don’t know yet).
The quality of 'uniqueness' that exists in this Universe does not affect humans only—or the services provided by them—, or other living creatures. It affects products too (non-living things): even if they are made of the same material, and they came out of the same factory line, and they look identical, they are still different. Their energy is different.
My point here (one of so many) is that we are all attracted to people and things for specific reasons and the vast majority of them are unknown to us; but, undoubtedly, it is because of the information that the energy of each being or thing carries.
Most people forget that they are energy, and think they're just a body of flesh and bones and a thinking mind attached to a brain. Everything that exists is energy, matter included. And every single thing that exists has consciousness and its own vibrational frequency: it is constantly changing and moving (all of its elements, and all the particles that make these elements—even if we can’t see a single atom there); it is constantly 'sounding' in a specific way; constantly connecting with everything around it and exchanging vital information.
I have my own energy. Other coaches have their own energy.
领英推荐
My energy changes many times per second, and so does everybody else's. Therefore, at some point, my clients will be or may have been other coach's clients; because everybody's energy is changing constantly, and so are their preferences and their needs. So, if this is such a natural thing, why does the marketplace on Earth look like a battlefield and so many companies and professionals are chasing customers/clients desperatedly?
Say I would like to be personally mentored by John Mattone, Luisa Zhou, Preston Smiles, John Assaraf or Tara Mullarkey. We are not a perfect match because I can't afford them right now. When I can, I may or may no longer be interested, because my energy may have changed considerably.
How does my uniqueness naturally work for me, and for my business?
My ideal clients and I are a perfect match to each other because I know who they are (It may sound obvious, but it is not that much). I have created all of my services from the deepest and highest places of my being, so I know what my gifts are and what my ideal clients need. And I know how I can serve them like nobody else could at a specif moment in their lives: just by being 'me.'
So, if someone is not my client now this means to me that: we are not a perfect match, we are not a perfect match yet, or that I am not close enough to them for them to perceive me (read me, watch me, hear about me, bump into me). I dont chase or fight for clients because I cannot 'lose' a potential client; a client is an ideal client or isn't a client at all. And a client is ideal because it is a perfect match to me.
No one is loosing nor winning. So no-one should be suffering or competing.
My view is that my ideal clients are ideal to me because I am ideal to them. And this level of coherence, symbiosis and synchronicity can only be experienced when one has gone far within to reach for authenticity—for the diamond that lies within—and is constantly expressing outside what is so powerfully pulsating inside.
There is room for everybody in this world, otherwise some of us wouldn’t be here. And everybody has something to provide to someone who especifically needs it in a specific moment in their lives—nothing exists by chance! And that is so good to know. :)
So, let's not panic, let's not rush, let's not compare, let's not compete, let's not copy so much, and especially, let's not hide. Talking about oneself (or one's creations or projects) is not egocentric, is natural, because one is, actually, the only expert in being their own 'me'. And it is from that unique 'me' that the most wonderful things have been created in this world. Extraordinary things happen when people express themselves fully and freely and create things from within: even just an article in a virtual world...
What else am I doing here if it's not to talk about what I do and what I love and to share my infinite perspectives on Life—which to me is one and the same: being 'me'. If I don't, how will others know how to benefit from my existence and from my presence here—in this beautiful network called Linkedin?
I have no competition, I am unique. I have a voice, and no-one has this voice. I do what I love—I do what I am—and that can be easily perceived from my energy field.
Vibrational Marketing
??COMUNICADORA/PONENTE .???? EMPODERAMIENTO/VIAJES /??CREADORA DE CONTENIDO. ?? PERIODISTA TV
2 年María, me ha encantado. Me parece perfecto y muy necesario para esta sociedad en la que nos cuesta valorar lo genuino .
I coach Soul Awakened Humans to do Inner Work & Practices that put their Soul at the driving seat, for Real-Life Outer Results! Experience deeper presence, unlimited vitality and unshakeable integrity. In UNDER 10 WEEKS
2 年These are masterful words right about the SCIENCE and WISDOM of BEING. It is important to read and witness these words and your State of Being. Conscious of the impact they may (or may not now nor in the future) have on the readers, I am even more grateful to have read this article. #bebusybeing #energy #iamunique
Certified Life Coach (Self-employed)
2 年My beautiful unique Maria, I am humbled by your words and frankness on a subject that (in my belief), needs to be addressed and tweaked if we are to regain consciousness about it. As of late, it seems we humans have lost our compass in terms of what really matters in life. We are losing our ability to truly empathize with our fellows. This is why I believe there is no better way than to start with one-self and then grow while leading by example amongst all those people and I quote you here, "There is room for everybody in this world, otherwise some of us wouldn’t be here. And everybody has something to provide to someone who specifically needs it in a specific moment in their lives—nothing exists by chance!" So why not embrace the chance to better ourselves, one client/s at a time by supporting all those people who wish to strive for more out of life while enjoying a healthier and simpler existence. I for one have chosen to join this quest myself and look forward to helping as many as those who choose a better existence for themselves. Let the revolution for self-love start now.