I fell, I failed but....

It seems like something is slipping from the hands. Presuming dark throws of defeat taking in despair. Failing sucks. Falling on ground hurts. Sometimes everything falls apart at the same time leaving us unsure of what to do next. When someone fails, life turns upside down. Everything once thought we wanted, seems to disappear into thin air.

What is failure? Why do we fall? Are we failing??Do we really know we're failing? Or we accept we failed?

These questions might have lingered upon to you once in life. And if you have the answer to any of these questions, this is the first step to get better of.

Did you ever fail Vimla? Asked one of the LinkedIn contact who then became a good friend of mine. How did you overcome your failures? No, I dint. I don't know. I was shun. Of course, I dint have the answer.

Until I had realized I started writing this. I then asked myself; I was reading those books but why I was putting reminders to myself to do and?to not.

I am a risk professional, being risk-averse is my job then how can I let my own life at risk. But does that really mean every plan we make is a fool-proof?

I was going to temples, I was fasting. I was not only following but speaking spiritual gurus. But, yet I dint accept. YES, I was failing. I was failing in my personal life, in my career, and financially.

For me, there is no recipe for overcoming failures. Failing is inevitable. Every flight takes off from the ground can not stay in the air permanently. Embracing failures is better than being cautious of making mistakes.?

All those things which I did during my rough time have led me to where I'm today.?

“It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all, in which case you have failed by default.” — J.K. Rowling

I might fall again but fear of failing would not stop me to step up.