"I don't want to make the wrong career choice."

"I don't want to make the wrong career choice."

One of my favorite story structures is from author John Gardener:

“A character wants something, goes after it despite opposition (perhaps including his [her] own doubts), and so arrives at a win, lose, or a draw”.

John Gardener


Immediately this made me think of our career journeys and career choices as a cascade of wins, draws, and losses.

Which leads us to the question:

  • How can we quantify the likelihood of a win, draw, and loss?
  • Then how do we increase the odds of the win and the draw?
  • How to minimize the rejection sensitivity to the loss?


Read the latest issue for 5 Steps to improve your odds of not making “the wrong” career choice.

Raja Sampathi

I Help Male Leaders Become Unshakeable | Conquer Fear, Lead with Resilience & Relevance - Without Sacrificing Work or Life | Battle - Tested Coaching for High-Stakes Leaders

1 年

looks like a very mindful way of approaching Win, loss and draw's. It helps to have a breakdown like the 5 steps Vanessa Monsequeira

Stephen Mostrom

Grow your career 1% daily | Smarter learning + habits, no fluff | Professor | L&D pro | MBA + JD | DM me for a book rec ??

1 年

Fantastic writeup and illustration, Vanessa. This is a challenge for so many professionals. Thanks for sharing a helpful way to think through career choices.

Oliver Spryn

Build Android apps like the top 1%. Save $25M and 7 years and build right the first time.

1 年

And doesn't wait for that never-occurring "perfect moment." Otherwise, it never happens.

Tanya P.

Senior Content Editor & Writer | The Last Person You'd Want In Your Group During a Zombie Apocalypse

1 年

Sounds cheesy, but anytime I've followed what I really love doing to the very core of my heart, good things have followed and I've been stunned at the doors that opened as a result. Good things come unexpectedly.

Vanessa Monsequeira - ?????????

VP of People at Gorilla | Building Employee Experience as a Product | In pursuit of making work suck less | Leadership & Career Coach | Corporate Hippy - views expressed here are my own

1 年

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