I Choose vs. I Can't

Today, I want to empower you to?make a choice for your life.

Because, here's the thing ...?life is?all?about choices.

Every single day,?you make choices.??

You make the choice to get out of bed in the morning.??

You make the choice whether or not to brush your teeth.

You make the choice whether or not you make breakfast.

You even, believe it or not, make the choice as to whether you're going to go to work that day or not.

Many people go through life thinking that they are doing things?because they?have?to.

Many people also go through life thinking that they are not doing what they really want to do?because they?can't?do it.

Well, both of those ways of thinking are absolutely incorrect and they are the lies that you have bought into.

Today, I ask you to?delete the word Can't from your vocabulary forever!

Now ... let me tell you ... why did you buy into these lies in the first place?

It's not really your fault. Only after understanding this information it WILL be your responsibility from this moment forward to change it.

From the day you were brought into this world, and even before that, you have been taught how to think.?You've heard the word can't thousands of times and it's become normalized.

You were taught this word by your parents, who unfortunately were taught to by their parents, who were taught by theirs and etc, and on and on down the line.

But, can't is the most disabling, limiting, disempowering word that you can ever use and you probably use it every single day of your life and you must break this habit.?There are dozens of other words like that as well, but today, we're talking about the word can't.

Let's discuss the word can't or rather can not.

What does the word mean?

In webster's dictionary, the word can not means?to have no alternative.

In a literal sense, when a person uses the term can not, they are suggesting, in other words, telling themselves that, I have no alternatives, no other options available.

Here's the truth.?In virtually every case, you ALWAYS have alternatives.?For example, Let's take the case where you say, "I can't go to the park with my kids today because I have to go to work."?

It's a logical, sensible statement, correct??And most people will just accept that statement as a true fact.??

However, it's not a fact.?The fact is, you choose to go to work instead.?Why do you make that choice??In all likelihood, you make the choice to go to work because if you don't, there may be consequences.?The consequences may be as severe as, you may get fired.?The consequences may be that you get a deduction in pay.?The consequences may be that your work will pile up.?The consequences may be that you let someone down.??

Of course, there are consequences on both sides of the equation.?When we are a yes to going to work, we are a no to spending that time at the park or whatever the choice may be.?What are the consequences of not going to the park? Those consequences can be anything like disappointment, missed opportunity, a way to have fun, time for yourself, time spent with your loved one, etc.

The key here is to recognize the fact that there are always choices and there are consequences on the other side of every choice we make.?There are also rewards for the choices we make as well.??

The more we are rewarded for making certain choices, the more often we make those same choices over and over again.

One of those rewards being we get to stay in our comfort zone.

We all like to be comfortable at times, don't we??It's so cozy and safe.

On the flip side, staying in our comfort zone too long has it's consequences too.??

What's a consequence of being in our comfort zone for too long?

For one, we never grow.??

For another, we don't take risks.

And when you don't take any risks, you miss out on opportunities.

Now we come to what is called opportunity cost.

The opportunity cost is the impact the missed opportunity has on your life.

Let me give an example of this.

I have a?two-day intensive?which costs $400 to go to.

During this class, you learn how to break limiting beliefs about what is possible for you to achieve.

Let's say you currently work for $50k a year in your full time job.

But what you've been trying to do is learn how to make $100k a year and work for yourself.

If, at the?seminar, you got one thing from the seminar, which would cause you to shift your mindset so that you suddenly knew exactly which actions to take to create the additional $50k and work for yourself, then ... the opportunity available at the seminar has a value of $50,000, plus!

Or, you can say the same thing about any of the other goals you are trying to achieve but haven't been able to figure out yet.?The opportunity is there for you to figure out how to do that.

But, you see, most people will say, no, I simply can't afford to to make an investment of $400 on myself.?They use this word, "I can't." Because it seems like it releases you from the responsibility of the fact that you are indeed making a choice.

That choice being, I choose to invest in myself and my future. I'll forego the thing I had allocated that $400 for (and it's always allocated to something else, you just may not be in touch with exactly what it's allocated for right now.) So that, I can receive the value of what the $400 could create in my life instead.

What else could it create???

- A beautiful dream home to live in?

- More time with your family?

- More freedom?

- The man or the woman of your dreams?

- Better health?

It's really unlimited as to what you can create when you see the value of investing in yourself and take two days of your life to learn how to tap into the subconscious and superconscious mind to create your best life ever, which is exactly what people do at?The Law of Attraction Intensive.

To wrap up this concept, it's truly your decision.?It's truly your choice.?You don't have to do anything.?You can do anything you want in life.?Anything!

Never ever say the word can't.?Can't is the biggest lie.??

If you really do want something, like the magic that happens in?the intensive, then you will figure out a way to do it.

If you really do not want to change your life and you would rather stay in the comfort zone and keep the status quo, that's ok too. I won't be mad at you.?But, I do want you to realize that it really IS 100% YOUR CHOICE!??

That's the point.

Please be honest with yourself.

It's a subtle shift in word choice.

It's the most empowering shift you can ever make.

To go from, I can't to I choose this or that or some other alternative.

Make your choices in life from a place of empowered thinking.

Not from old unempowered, fearful, and habitual ways of thinking.

Don't be afraid to just look.

Take a truthful look at all of your options.??

There are many, many choices and many alternatives.?Not just one or two or three .?Not just two.?

Your choices are absolutely unlimited if you would only take a look.

So, that's what I was inspired to share with you today!

I hope that was helpful.

And if you really want to expand your thinking, increase your confidence, and change your life, then I invite you to spend two days with me in Las Vegas, NV at the?Law of Attraction Intensive, July 27th - 28th, 2021.

This is the only class I'm doing this year.

Next year I may do it, but the price will be much higher if I do decide to offer this class again.?I have some other big projects I am working on and so that is a choice I am in the middle of making myself.?

July 19th is quickly approaching, which is the final deadline to sign up online.?After that,?you must buy tickets?for $50 higher directly at the door, at the event.??

So,?take action now?on this and sign up today!

Here is the link to sign up to attend:?

https://victoriamgallagher.com/law-of-attraction-intensive-in-las-vegas/

Look forward to seeing you there!

Love,

Victoria M. Gallagher