I ask a lot of questions too.
An unexpected benefit that I’ve come across in my nascent mediation practice is how much fun it is to mediate cases in practice areas with which I have little (or no) familiarity. It has been a lot of fun to learn how other attorneys in my practice area work—something I see less directly every day—but it’s really cool to see how attorneys in totally different areas of the law practice. There is a great quote from Mads Mikelsen that captures my approach better than I could:
I ask a million questions, and I insist on having answers. I think that is what we have to do. I have to know what the director wants. Some are very much in their head, and I need to force it out of them. I just can't play around for eight hours and see if something happens.
This is, more or less, my approach to figuring things out. If I have time I’ll do some legal research, but more often I’m better served by asking the attorneys. If you want the inside track, here are some of the questions I find myself asking all the time:
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Mikkelsen’s quote is particularly applicable to mediations because I don’t want to waste anybody’s time. The only thing worse than driving to Detroit (or logging onto Zoom for that matter) for a long mediation that goes nowhere is having to pay for the privilege. Our view is good, but it isn’t that good.