I am ready for transformation

Do you ever ask yourself? 

 Are you ready for transformation?  

  How do you know when you are ready for a change?   

  I often see clients who come to me looking like they have been beaten up by stress, raising their eyebrows and contracting their face muscles,  I can hear their accelerated breathing patterns and what they tell me makes it clear that the current circumstances are causing them considerable emotional, and sometimes physical, pain. There spoken word and body language come across as a shout out for help.    

I pause and look them in the eye, then I gently say, “Well done! Congratulations for coming forward and taking the first step in the right direction and making great decisions. Yes, I hear your cries for help, and I want to help you!  I acknowledge that you are prepared for transformation. To me knowing you are ready to overcome your obstacles is beautiful, I honor this feeling in you.” 

  At this point they are looking puzzled, not understanding at all what is going on.  For an individual to make a long-lasting transformation they need to see the goal. Right now they are going to feel uncomfortable and disappointed with the current results but once they feel like they have had enough and they reach their boiling point, that is when they will do whatever it takes to get over the things that are troubling them. This is what I call a WOW moment when someone finally finds the strength, motivation and the will power to transform.  

Over the years I have learned not to work with those who are not ready for transformation yet, people who sit in their confront zone knowing they could be doing something different, something beneficial but they keep avoiding opportunities because “they don’t have time” or because “ they are not feeling ready and they are waiting for a day where they do".  

Real Mindset transformations occur when a person feels great pain with their current reality. They tend to shout for help, looking for the right guidance and tools, when they have these it becomes easier to deal with their problems. In order to experience a real transformation, you need to say to yourself " I am Feed up with my reality and I’m prepared to do whatever it takes to change my life”.  This is the point that I can help you achieve massive changes in a short period of time.