How Your Relationship Either Contributes or Detracts from Your Bottom Line

How Your Relationship Either Contributes or Detracts from Your Bottom Line

You just can’t sweep it under the rug. You know that lingering issue in your relationship with your partner? You just can’t continue to ignore it any longer.

You both pretend it’s gone, or it doesn’t exist, but it’s still very much there.

Eventually you’ll settle into an uncomfortable, comfort zone.

Money & Relationships

In the meantime, however, unresolved issues, especially with your significant other, will absolutely have an adverse effect upon your bottom line.

This is especially so for those of you who are entrepreneurs. You see it’s subtle and indirect in the way that impacts your sales and income.

I can’t tell you how many people I’ve coached over the years who came to me to try to figure out why they couldn’t break a financial barrier, only to discover the existence of a longstanding, unresolved issue within their relationship.

It’s not like your spouse or partner is physically getting in the way of your business. You may seem fine while you’re working on your business venture. And so, you’re wondering, ‘how does the one thing have anything to do with the other?’

If you attempt to tie them directly together, you’ll come up short. It’s because it’s impossible to quantify how much energetic resistance can and will impact your bottom line. And the person who you share the most energy with is your significant other. In fact, they are part of your energetic base.

Thus, if there’s something amiss in your relationship with them, then there is something amiss within your energetic power center.

Hitting an Invisible Barrier

The thing is you can continue to ignore it. However, you’ll also continue to keep running into that invisible barrier.

You become neurotic with your action-steps, grinding yourself away into the wee hours of the night, trying everything you can think of. All the while there is this nagging feeling that nothing is going to change until you figure out what is holding you back.

You grind away, you set up your meetings, you make your calls, you gather the team, you go over the numbers, you’ve done it all before a thousand times.

Why can’t we sell this product? Why can’t we close these deals? Why can’t we attract the clients? Why aren’t they downloading our app?

All the while the answer is staring you straight in the face. How you do one thing is how you do everything. You can no longer afford to ignore the fact that it’s all energy and thus it’s all connected.

This means that you need to start from the very beginning which is the partnership with your significant other.

You & Your Partner

You see, you are energetically tied to this other person. Your energy coalesces with theirs to become one energy. In turn, if you are both on the same page with everything, and there is love, compassion, & respect, then it can literally amplify your business and bottom line.

Conversely, if there is inner resistance, a lack of love and mutual respect, then it can and will create resistance and leave you energetically dead in the water.

If, in session with a client, I see this is happening, we stop everything else and dive straight into this issue first. Everything else is secondary to this as this facet of their life will dominate everything ese. You simply cannot expect that your business will flourish if you have an unresolved relationship issue in your life.

Thus, when you allow yourself to go there, engage in the art of conscious conversation with your partner, and really hash it out, there is almost always an immediate response within the business and sales. I’ve seen it time and again when that person finally dedicates the time and energy to healing their relationship with their significant other that the business takes off as a side effect. In many cases it happens within 24 hours of the release of inner resistance between you and your partner.

When you do sit down to talk you use ‘us, our, & we’ and not ‘you or me.’ You are not creating an adversarial situation by introducing a blame game. You always start with ownership by starting with yourself.

How did you contribute to this situation? How did you enable this to go unresolved for such a long time?

It always takes two to tango, there is never a single person to blame in the relationship. Only the ego deals in absolutes.

Don’t be surprised that, when you take the time to resolve the issue and reconnect with your partner, that all kinds of amazing things happen in your life and business as a result.

If you are interested in:

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Then contact me for a free consultation.

www.christopherpinckley.com

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