How your body lies- The Pinocchio effect
Susan Ibitz
??Working on the humans that grow your business | High-performance Human Behavior training- I teach corporations & employees how to hack into humans using Behavior & Persuasion |Behavior Economics
This Sunday I woke up, and checked my phone for updates, to my surprise; I never notice this before; we have a PINOCCHIO DAY.?
But why?
Pinocchio Day, celebrated on February 23rd, honors the story of Pinocchio, a wooden puppet who dreams of becoming a real boy. This day commemorates the enduring impact of Carlo Collodi's 1883 Italian book, "The Adventures of Pinocchio," and its adaptations, particularly the 1940 Disney animated film. It is considered the first book and movie that talks about lies, kids and the consequences of lying.
How kids learn to lie
Studies from Matsumoto in 2011 show that kids born blind have and express emotions as intense or more than kids that were born with sight.
This kills the myth that kids learn expressions from their parents, but what they do learn from the parents is to lie.
Think about this:
Mom: “we are going to the mall to do shopping, if you don’t tell your dad, we’re going for fast food after”
Kid: “Dad your boss is on the phone”
Dad: “Tell him I am sick” but the dad is not anywhere near to be sick, is watching a game.
When kids see their parents and people around getting away with lies, they mimic the same, ergo, they learn how to lie, and they carry this for life.
The only lie your body can’t hide
You can manage your Micro-Expressions [that are not a good indicator on lying and should not be used], your body language [same as Micro-Expressions, can’t be used to spot lies], but what you CANNOT do hold is your mouth and what comes out from it.
People get trained to hold every physical manifestation of lies or deception [I made a career doing this], except the physiological indicators.?
Most people hire me to control false and real signs of deception or nervousness. Due to the ignorance and false information on the internet, some people read deception in the wrong places. For this reason you need to control your body and expressions before reading others-
Examples:
When your career depends on “THAT” speech, you don’t have a second chance, you need to nail it!!!
Back to your mouth?
Since you can’t go around with a heat scan or a FMRI. Pay attention to the words:
Tell # 1- 3rd person pronoun, instead 1st person
Tell # 2 - Changes from past to present
Tell # 3 - Avoidance to replay simple questions with yes -no
Body reaction to lies
Yes, there are several physical signs that may indicate lying, although it's important to note that these signs are not foolproof and should be considered in context. Some additional physical signs that might suggest deception include:
“The Pinocchio Effect”
The "Pinocchio Effect" refers to several phenomena related to deception and body responses. Here are the main interpretations:
Conclusion:
Overall, the term "Pinocchio Effect" is often used metaphorically to describe how deception can be detected through physiological or linguistic cues, much like Pinocchio's growing nose in the classic children's tale.
Remember that these signs can also be indicators of general nervousness or discomfort, and should not be taken as definitive proof of lying. Context, baseline behavior, and other factors should always be considered when interpreting these physical cues.
Detecting lies, deception and profiling requires training, coaching and practice. This can be conquered with the right community and training.?
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About the author:
?????????????????????????????Susan is a former political influence consultant, profiler, and civilian hostage negotiator, with expertise, studies and Master’s in Human Behavior, Behavior Economics, Neuroscience and a nerd for data. Susan works on the humans that grow your business | High-performance Human Behavior training- I teach corporations & employees how to hack into humans using Behavior, Neuroscience & Persuasion |Behavior Economics
She has been called Freaky and the top expert on her field, by the Chicago Tribune and Psychology Today.
She is the author and researcher of “Irrational Humans. People Make 35,000 Decisions a Day and 95% are Irrational, but Why & How?”
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