How your analytical mind is holding you back
Olga Kniazeva, PhD
Detoxifying Marriages. Solving Major Life Problems. Reshaping Success. For High-Achieving, Accomplished Type A Personalities and Their Partners. Over 70 Video Testimonials from Elite Performers.
“When I come home from work, I feel that I'm kind of done. I have a wonderful family and great friends, but sometimes I'm just not in the mood to talk to anyone. My mind keeps going over all the different things I need to make happen. I can’t really relax, I can’t really be present. I feel that something is missing.”
We hear this often, in different variations.
High achievers often rely on their analytical mind to survive.
Always calculating what needs to be said or done gives you a sense of control.
But as a result, your mind can take over.
You get stuck in your analytical mind.
Can you relate to some of these statements?
Little by little, you find that you begin to live in worry more and more – what if this or that goes wrong, what if I make a wrong decision.
Maybe you’ve learned to “mirror” people, but over time you may find that you've become so used to it that you feel like you're constantly pretending to be someone else.
Next thing you know, there is no real connection. No aliveness.
Sometimes you say to yourself – I just want to breath. I just want to be here and now, to enjoy life, to have fun.
You want to pick up a phone, call a friend on a whim and go for a drink or a walk.
You want to spend quality time with your partner, be creative and spontaneous. You want to laugh and maybe even be a little silly.
But you can’t allow yourself.
You’re feeling nervous or tense.
You remember how you used to be fun before.
But over the years, as you were climbing the ranks and building your success, the fear of the unknown and the need to control became your default state.
And you feel that you've lost yourself.
You realize that perhaps you were putting your career ahead of other important things and this has had an impact on you.
You survived – in fact, you’ve done quite well – but you know this can’t be all there is to life.
Something important is missing.
Maybe you feel that you’re lacking genuine connection.
Lacking fulfillment.
Lacking enjoyment.
And you feel that now, it’s time to do something about it.
Succeeding, yes, but while having more fun and aliveness.
To be an inspiring leader, to be a great partner, and a loving parent.
But you don’t know how to do it yourself, because if you knew, you would have done it by now.
If you find yourself in this story and want to do something about it, there is a solution.
We created a system that will bring life, love, fun, and connection back into your life.
While simultaneously enhancing your cognitive abilities and your professional performance.
We've created this free on-demand training that will help you understand how your mind works, why you do what you do, and how you can use this understanding to enhance your experience of life, almost instantaneously.
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4 年People tend to replay their day over and over especially if something was not 100 percent thus creating dissatisfaction in your own thoughts with your performance. Not everyone can come home and take on a happy family face persona. That is why many of high achievers need your services Olga to place everything in harmony without regrets. You are the best in your field.
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4 年I'm going to have to think about this, Olga. Oh, wait a minute... Sometimes you just have to get out of your own head. And you're right, that can be the hardest thing to do. The mind is an answer-seeking missile. We have to be careful what questions we ask it.
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4 年Some of these things are really true to me. Darn Analytical mind!
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4 年Thank you. Will check it out.? I have my own business and must constantly motivate myself. So maybe I can find some insights by viewing your training.?