How you feel when you spend money influences how quickly it returns

So how do you feel when you exchange money for something in your life?

The day to day direct debits and food shops, do they fill you with gratitude or plant the seed of fear that then snowballs leaving you feeling disempowered for the rest of your day??

This time of year there is a lot of expense and also a lot of worry.? I have spoken to many business owners who write off December on the assumption no one will buy.? But this is a well versed belief to buy into if your brain is wired to lack because everyone says it - but it isn’t true.

Whatever money beliefs you harbor, a great way to to understand where your money attraction ometer is sitting is to look at how you feel when money leaves you.

Understanding this helps us to see what sort of energy you are putting out into the world when it comes to money, and if you’re looking to create more then those feelings need to stem from gratitude, excitement and fun.? However for many of us they stem from fear, lack and scarcity because that was what we learned and as a result that is the theme of our current money programming.

Let's just turn the tables a little and switch perspectives. Imagine money needs you, it's a friend and you’re sending it off on a trip.? Would your friend want to come back if it was hearing things like…

‘I hate that you’re going’

‘Why do you always leave me’

‘I hate that I have to let you go so quickly’

‘You’re just not here enough’

Look at the energy in these statements.? I spot hate, worry and a big dollop of victim mentality.? This is someone who is disempowered and if I was the other person I would be feeling the drain too and thinking, ‘Wow, you’re a bit much I’m not rushing back to this it’s killing my vibe!’

Money may be an inanimate object in its physical form (although it’s still energy that is just physics) but the? emotional energy behind it is real.? While many money mindset approaches have you masking your true feelings in favour of some positive whooping’ I will always ask you to go deeper so you can;

• Make peace with where you are with money right now.
• Neutralise all the unhelpful emotions and beliefs
• Know your money patterns so you can rewrite the programming.

The way that you can do this is through building a relationship with money.? If this fills you with dread because money is scary then this is evidence that you are giving money all of your power.? So starting to neutralise where you are and change your patterns will help you enormously when it comes to creating a prosperous 2025.

If you aren’t sure where to start you can request my money prompts questionnaire.? Fill this out and send it over, you will then receive my bespoke feedback on YOUR money relationship and a journal prompt to help you really get to the root of your current money feelings and emotions.

This is a free offer for the first 10 people so do send me a DM if it sounds helpful.? Aside from that, the very best thing you can do to build your prosperity consciousness is gratitude.Please don’t just write a list though, notice the ripples and bring it to life in your everyday.? I’ll give you a prompt here - how about being grateful for the water you drink everyday.? Each time you have a glass take a moment to notice that this is the very substance keeping you alive and it is right here, right now in your reach, that is pretty cool!

Sending love!

Victoria Xx