How you can get a Date for Valentines Day

Valentine's Day is coming up, and if you are looking to get that hot date for the fourteenth of february, then you better read this and take some action - and let me know how it goes of course.

I remember all the Valentine's Days before I knew what I was doing in my dating life were just days I dreaded.

“Oh god, Valentine's Day is coming up, ughhh,” would be my initial thought.?

I was mostly always single for that day, and as the days were leading up to that specific date, I would get hit by a million ads on tv, youtube ads,valentines candy and flowers in grocery stores & billboard signs of couples kissing, eating chocolate, or having dinner. It's like they just kept saying to me, “YES, you are single!”

“What are you going to do about it?”

There were two thoughts I had. One was me feeling bad for myself asking myself why the hell am I still single? The other was my ego saying, who cares about this dumb holiday? It gives you more time to work on your goals.

I always had mixed feelings about this holiday.?

Well, if you are like me, a man working on his career & goals and having some similar feelings, I have some great news.?

Imagine how WOMEN feel.?

This is one of the most important holidays for women when it comes to wanting to get asked out on a date, or for couples to rekindle and celebrate their love by doing something special.

This is a holiday where women who are single are planning their calendar to do more activities to meet guys, to give them signals and indicators of interest that they are single and to invite them over to flirt with her, so that he can ask her out.

Remember this, the majority of women don't ask men out! It is a man's job to ask a woman out!?

Women do not want to spend Valentine's Day alone. They hate to be lonely on this particular day, so they will do whatever it takes to get a date to feel better and also for status with friends and family.

That being said, you should feel extremely optimistic about this now, even if you have spent Valentine's Day alone in the past.?

Now let’s get to the basics of the HOW to land a date.?

The majority of people usually meet women in online dating apps, or through friends of friends.

These are by far the two biggest ways for most people to meet their partner.?

Now if it's online dating, make sure that you keep the conversation playful and lighthearted - don’t keep the conversation so long in the online chat box or else the convo will fizzle out.

You want to lead, get her number and then set a definite date with an exact location and time. If this is before Valentines, then make sure you talk about it and ask her if she has any plans for that day.?

If she says she doesn't have any plans, this is a huge green flag to ask her out for that day and plan something fun.?

At the surface level she might not be saying much, keeping a stoic look, but underneath the surface, she's screaming.? There are thousands of pounds of weight that have been lifted off her back - she might actually fly away!?

Now let’s say you are with friends of friends, and by now you should know who is single and who’s taken.

If there are any women in your social circle that you are into, it should be easier to talk to her and take her in a spot where it’s a little more isolated. For example, if you are at a house party or small get together, take her outside onto the balcony and start having a playful conversation with her.?

Talk about the stuff that interests you so it's easy for you to talk, and what are some goals and bucket list items that you want to set out for this year, and ask her as well.?

When you guys are talking, then ask her if she has any plans for Valentine's Day. If she says no, ask her out! Be the man and lead!

Say, “We should get dinner then.”

Most likely if the conversation is good and she’s into you, she will say yes and then you set a definite date on the spot!?

And just like that you have a new hot date!

Now there might be some guys that say, Well, I don’t have many friends or my social circle doesn’t have any women that I can ask out.

Well my counter to your argument is that there are 3+ billion women in the world so if you want to get a date, then I suggest you? start talking to women that you are attracted to when you go out to public places.?

Start taking a chance and initiate conversations with women, complement them, and build a fun and playful conversation to get her number so that you can take her out.?

If you do any of these correctly, this year will be the year that you land a hot date for Valentines Day!

If you want this year to change, then you are going to have to change!

How do you want to spend Valentine's Day this year? Do you want to spend it having fun with an attractive woman you are into? Or do you just want to spend it all alone again in your apartment with your kleenex and lotion?

The choice is yours.

If you want more help in these categories, I'd be happy to help you get a date for Valentines and if it goes well, you never know she can be your girlfriend!

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