How working Moms are spoiling their families

I know a friend who wakes up at 4 am in the morning, makes her entire family’s breakfast, her lunch tiffin, her husband’s & son’s tiffins, works 9-5 and returns home to make snacks , dinner, clean up after her family’s mess, clean their utensils and clothes.

I know another friend who wakes his working wife up at 5 am so she cooks for him while he completes his sleep till 7 am so he is able to start his day in a fresh manner.

You might think these are examples of perfect women right? She Cooks, cleans after her family and also works.

Who doesn’t want to be married with such ladies who work like this, moreover, work like this ‘Without complaining’ that is the catch phrase. ‘We are for women empowerment, just say the word and we’ll help you, but if you are not complaining, it means you are doing perfectly fine, aren’t you?”

So yes, its true, working Moms and Stay at Home Wives spoil their families by not complaining at all.

And when women complain, certain men play their finance card ‘I am the provider for this family, it depends on my finances, I work my ass off at work, the least you could do is wash my soiled utensils after I eat.” Ofcourse, his Wife ends up doing a lot more than that

Some men say they’re men, they’re not meant for this stuff. But I wonder, what is a man known for? His strength right? Where is his display of strength when his Wife uses her energy to knead a dough, a belan to make a chapati?

Where is this flaunting of strength when his wife washes clothes with her hands and scrubs his soiled plates to remove stains. Where is it when she stands for 1 long hour just to make good food for her husband, who might not even appreciate her efforts and the taste she worked so hard for.

Not just husbands, even kids – some grown up school & college kids whose contribution to the family is not even monetary – their only job is to wake up, eat, go to school or college, chill, come back home, eat or study, watch Youtube comic videos and sleep. These boys and girls only remember helping their Moms during Mother’s Day when they can display their help on social media.

So be considerate to your Mother and Wife. She does not complain, does not mean she does not deserve some help.