How to work your natural cycle to make the most impact in the corporate world
Nicola Skorko ??
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Do you ever find certain points of your monthly cycle slows your productivity and can make the working week feel that much harder?
We are all a little at the mercy of our monthly hormones and how they make us feel. Those times we can lose control, feel tired all the time and generally just be a bit of a loose cannon.
And in the corporate world, women at top, role modelling for others have a whole other list of factors to contend with. You’re in the spotlight, so one week you want to nest… yet you have that big board meeting and you’re under mountains of pressure to deliver.?
Unfortunately there’s some things you can’t change. Yet being mindful helps you to be more confident and consistent. The more you know what you need at different times of your cycle, the more you can plan for it.
So this is really about optimising your cycle
I speak to a lot of women who really struggle through their monthly cycle and suffer with PMS. At certain times of the month they become snappy mood hoovers or duvet lovers who feel like they just can’t budge.
Your hormonal cycle has a huge effect on your life, how you feel, the way you work, your appetite, your energy, and your positivity. So don’t think it’s YOU as such.
Understanding your cycle
It’s all about working with it so you feel awesome, on fire and ready to make the most impact at work… even on those days you don’t feel like it.
It’s a little misunderstood
We don’t all go mad and turn into screaming rant-ers. If you do have extremes during a month, there might be a problem with one of your body processes… thyroid (controls metabolism), liver (cleansing) or gut health (food metabolism). So you’d need to look a little more widely.
Plus what you eat has a huge effect on your hormonal cycle, especially extremes of carbs. And stress can throw your whole cycle out. Look at your lifestyle as a whole and not just diet. If PMS is really an issue and you do become a raving hater… it’s your lifestyle that needs to be looked at.??
Track it and know, no more guesswork
So you can really understand your own cycle I recommend everyone tracks their cycle for 2-3 months. Just in a nice simple way. The first day of your period and then through the month, each week, track:
The benefits:?From tracking your cycle you can really start to optimise your working week and create a lifestyle for a happier you.
Sound good? Well there’s more…
#1: Adjust your schedule when you can, to fit with how you feel
It’s not always easy when working but try and allow where you can for those busy weeks and long hours when you’re feeling strong and full of energy. When at the phase in the cycle that means you want to nest and stay at home… try and avoid scheduling that big meeting.
#2: Be mindful of food
When you hit certain points in the month, you’ll be hungrier and have stronger cravings… those desk binges! You can learn to plan round these and also not kick your own arse so much. It isn’t YOU, it’s your body and hormones.
#3: Even use it to plan your life!
Having a date night with your partner? Then check with your cycle to see when you will be feeling best. It’s a sure-fire way of getting your sexy back. Planning your social life around when you feel best might sound extreme but if it makes for a happier you then it’s all good… try it.
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#4: Understand “bad” weeks
Limit that arse kicking. If you know your own cycle, you know when you might not be feeling as confident to speak up and challenge, or even a little low. So there’s no need to kick your arse and be hard on yourself.
You are special.?
Yes, I say that to all my lovely ladies and mean it, but I mean unique and special biochemically.?
We all work in slightly different ways… different cycle patterns, hormone levels varying and different monthly symptoms. That’s why we suggest you track your monthly cycle to know how YOU work and YOUR reactions. The TRUE you. (God, I love getting my geek on!)
Understanding your cycle to make the most impact at all times
Each month your hormones go through some changes, here comes some geekery BTW…
#1st Phase comes under the Follicular Phase (menstruation occurs from approx. day 1 – 7):
#2nd comes under the Follicular Phase, still mid-cycle (c.day 7 – 15):
#3rd Phase, Ovulation (c.day 15 – 22):
#4th and Final Phase, Luteal Phase (c.day 22 – 28):
A little extra help:?Consider Epsom salt baths, greens drinks and magnesium to help you manage through the month.
Track it and know it:?Start with tracking it and keeping a log of how you feel. Then see if it follows in the next month, use it to see how you really are.
Once you understand your cycle, that’s when you can really start to work it to work for you.?Just message me here if you have any questions!
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Big love
Nic
Managing Director, First Customer Contact Ltd
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