How to Win Friends and Influence People?

If you think that whoever you see in front of you is going to like you, you are mistaken. As this is just a hope which people have in others? There should be a sense of admiration and respect when you are dealing with people. Below are some tips to recognize people:

• Keep an eye on people who are easy to communicate with. They will come to you very fast and start a conversation with you. You may not like in the beginning but slowly you will be prey to their words. Their target is to influence you to draw attention to their hidden agenda.
• Always remember to keep a distance from the negative people who think that nothing is going to work out.
• Be careful while accepting friend requests from unknown people on social media websites. You may be sometimes compromising your security and privacy by accepting strangers.
• Do not share any content with people who you don’t know. If you do, you are the sole responsible person of whatever outcome may happen.
• Create a web of positivity around you by networking with people of substance. Try to connect with real life motivators who do what they speak.

Once you identify a person whom you can trust, you are in a way molding yourself and preparing to be in full engagement with the person. Your connection will start to fill with promises, valuations, estimations, forecasting, meetings, public appearances, write up’s etc. Getting to know each other will be a hard process in the initial go. But once you do excel in it, this relationship should take you to new challenges.

11 Ways to Influence People’s Life’s

1. Be a solver not a creator. This means that people should relate to you as a provider at any time. You must not create additional problems for others when they are coming to you for advice and help.
2. Talk with confidence. Even though you may not be fully able to help the person, you have to communicate confidently. It is your authoritative command over what you say what makes the difference.
3. Be polite in your speech and action. Humbleness and politeness go together as we need to relate to our emotions and inner feelings with people who come to us.
4. Talk to them about today. You have to tell them that your past is just an experience. Today is what matters. All the change is to be made today. Tomorrow is never in your hand which makes it an expectation.
5. Take things seriously. Many people take other lightly and when they come to share their thoughts, you make it a non-serious thing and just pass it.
6. Always be a giver. Don’t look for financial returns while helping. As this will give an idea to the opposite person that you do everything for money only.
7. Share your experiences with the person. Let your hard times and how you overcame it be a lesson for all those who are hearing from you.
8. Education is very important. Keep yourself engrossed in learning behavioral changes in others. If you can learn skills which relate to human emotions and changes, it would be easy for you to spread our positive vibes.
9. Don’t let the person who asks your help just wait for you for long to get in touch with you. Some people don’t answer calls and just maintain some silence over a period of time. So, don’t do that, as it will affect the person negatively and by time he will lose trust over you.
10. Be cool in situation where the opposite person is hyper and is angry over situations. Listen to him/her to the core. Understand what he is going through and act wisely.
11. Share motivational contents with the person who needs your help on a daily basis. Speak up and make a change in his/her life forever.

“Always remember to be a giver, more you give, better you become. “