How We Feel Valued Matters: Change What Is in Your Control

In our personal and professional lives, how we feel valued makes a significant difference. It shapes our self-esteem, influences our interactions, and impacts our contributions to the world. The journey to feeling valued begins with awareness—an awareness of who we are, what we care about, and how we bring our true selves into every space we occupy.

Awareness

• Bring Your Whole Self: Be authentic. Show up not just with your skills but with your heart and vulnerability. Be fascinating—allow others to see the real you.
• Bring Your Passion: What drives you? What makes you feel alive? Sharing your passion connects you with like-minded people who value the same things.
• Bring Your Stories: Share your experiences—what has shaped you, what matters most to you. Your stories make you relatable and help others see why you are valuable.
• People Are More Than Things: Recognize the unique worth in every individual you encounter. By valuing others, you not only uplift yourself but also create meaningful connections.

?? We Are Visible and Valued ??

• I am valued ??: Recognize your worth. You bring something unique to every room, every conversation, and every relationship.
• I add value ??: What you contribute is essential—your skills, your perspectives, your experiences. Own it.
• I am valuable in God’s eyes ??: Embrace the spiritual dimension of your value. Your worth is not just in what you do but who you are.

Our Value is Visible and Vital for Others ~???????????????

?? Sharing Value Benefits?

1. Purpose and Fulfillment: Knowing your value gives you direction and a sense of purpose. You’re fulfilling a role that only you can.

2. Reputation and Influence: When you live your values, you become a beacon for others, attracting opportunities and influencing those around you.

3. Positive Impact on the World: Your value extends beyond yourself, creating a ripple effect that makes the world a better place.

?? 4 Ways to Add Value?

1. Value Yourself: Acknowledge your strengths, your worth, and your contributions. You are enough as you are.

2. Value People: See the potential in others and encourage them. Lift them up by recognizing their unique contributions.

3. Relate to What People Value: Understand what matters to those around you and connect with them through shared interests and goals.

4. Do What God Values: Align your actions and efforts with your faith and values. Be of service in a way that is meaningful and impactful.

?? Visible Value Outcome?

1. Impact Not Ignored: Your efforts and contributions are seen and appreciated.

2. Calling will not be Constrained: You won’t be limited by doubts or circumstances; your potential is unlimited.

3. Mission Not Misunderstood: When you know your value, you communicate your purpose clearly, avoiding misinterpretation.

4. Assignment will be Appreciated: Your work, your role, and your place in the world are recognized and valued.

5. Service will Shift: You become a force for good, using your skills and passion to make a lasting difference.

I Am Not Going to Be in Spaces Where I Am Not Valued

• When I am in spaces where I am not valued, that decreases my value. Recognizing this helps you choose environments that respect and appreciate you.

Maximize your strengths to become an indispensable and highly valued player. Identify your strengths, play to them, and consider your blind spots. When people watch what you say and how you behave, they learn everything about what you value.

Change what is in your control—be the person who feels valued, adds value, and lives in a way that shows your worth. ????