How To Use My ‘Cover Cough’ Technique To Reduce Performance Anxiety When Communicating
Louise Mahler
Keynote Speaker of The Year | Gravitas and Executive Presence Expert | Speaker | Executive Coach | Media commentator | Adjunct Professor | Author
It’s natural for us to hold our breath when we’re stressed…
it’s part of the well-known fight or flight reaction.
As you may have experienced in the past – when you’re feeling stressed, your voice becomes “high” and “short”.
Just when you need it most – getting up on the stage, giving a presentation or making an important phone call – your breath deserts you.
This has a BIG consequence when you run into tension - and you desire to communicate clearly and effectively to those around you.
When you’re in “stress breathe” - you won’t be able to think and people will tell you that you speak too fast.
Why?
Put simply - there is not enough oxygen going to the brain.
Remember the physiology – the diaphragm goes stiff (the minute you feeling stressed) – that’s exactly what takes the breath.
Our challenge is to release the diaphragm – to release by “kicking it” from underneath it.
A hard and fast exert.
In a few repetitions – this will kick the diaphragm free.
I call this simple yet powerful technique, the “Cover Cough”.
You cough in a way where the stomach goes in, kicking the diaphragm into action.
(It’s such a great tool to use without getting awkward at a boardroom table)
Remember: if you get your breath wrong, you can potentially get everything wrong.
So we must learn to override the strong, quite natural responses.
Drop me a comment below if you’d like me to know more about how to use this simple yet powerful technique to boost your communication skills as a leader.
~Dr. Louise Mahler
Writer, former adman, innoventor
5 年I'd like to know more please
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5 年Ahem ??
Executive coach ? ExCFO/COO ? Helping senior leaders with the profound self-transformation that delivers what really matters most ? 15 yrs coaching leaders on 6 continents ? Group coach ? Coach trainer
5 年Great technique. I also recommend a couple of firm thumps to the sternum with your fist. Well not quite 'thumps' - you're not trying to hurt yourself. You can do these as if you were trying to help clear your throat. This has the effect of releasing some testosterone which hangs around for a few minutes and helps to embolden you more as you get into the swing.