How to: Turn Off Work & STOP Thinking About it

Do you find yourself working in the evening? On the weekends? And even on holidays and vacations?

As a high performer, you have to turn work OFF! If you don’t, you will keep finding your thoughts moving back to what you have to do in your non-work hours.

Let me start off by saying, I've been there. I found myself overworking in every single one of my jobs. And I’m sure you’ve heard me say this before but I pushed myself to overwork twice in my career because once wasn’t enough. Now I consider myself a successful high performer and I guide other high performers to be this as well. How do we get you to be one too? You have to turn work off and STOP thinking about it.

WHY are You Overworking?

You're being driven by what I call your Success Wound?. Your Success Wound is your endless inner drive to do more and make more.

Over the last five years, I’ve written articles, I’ve done podcasts and videos to help you start to recognize and begin to heal your Success Wound. Here's my most recent Success Wound video to help you start to recognize what your endless, inner drive here is. It’s one of three things, you’re proving: I am worthy, I am enough or I am love. Any combination or just one of these is ready to be addressed so you can start healing it and stop overworking.?

Instead of Overworking...

1. Have your WHY to STOP working defined.

As a high performer, if you don’t have anything else to do, your default is work. I hear this ALL the time. While you enjoy getting things done and you love your work, you are absolutely here for more than your work.

What to do: Define your WHY. To play, to spend time with loved ones, to take care of your body, to learn a new hobby - your why for life outside of work has to be more important than your why for overworking. Make your why something you want to do, something that seems fun or exciting. Find a new hobby that’s exciting for you - something that you’re not going to want to work through.

2. RECHARGE so you don’t burn out.

You aren’t a machine. Even if you love your work, you’re still spending over 100% of your energy there each day, that means you start the next day out with less than 100% energy. This continues on and on.

So many of my clients come to me exhausted and overwhelmed - putting work and other family committments ahead of their own needs. This is not sustainable and a fast path to burnout.

What to do: Block time on your schedule for you to play and recharge, to enjoy this life you’ve been so busy creating. Activities that recharge you are considered self-care. These are activities that give your body and mind more energy: getting enough sleep, taking a nap, eating lunch, eating foods that support your body, getting a massage or facial, exercising, being out in nature, etc.

3. Make your relationships a priority.

Who nags you and tells you to stop working? They’re telling you this is a problem, listen. So many clients have complained to me about their partners nagging them. Do NOT ignore this or brush it off. They are communicating to you and asking you for a change. Make it!

What to do: Block out time in your schedule to spend with them UNITERRUPTED. Spend time with people that give you energy, that do fun things with you and make you happy. Enjoy this time with your loved ones and the memories you'll make together.

4. You’re here for more than your work.

No one says on their deathbed, I’m so glad I overworked. Instead they talk about what they missed out on by working so much. Don’t do that to yourself.

What to do: be as passionate about your life outside of work as you are about your career. Schedule the things on your big to do list so you actually do them. Celebrate your wins and success. Love your life - you're so busy creating it, be just as busy LOVING it.

You’re only paid to work so many hours. Work those hours and then STOP.?

End of Workday Routine to STOP Overworking

How do you create closure to your workday in a way that stops overworking and thinking about work?

By having an end of the the workday routine. This will help you create closure around your workday AND help you stop thinking about work.

1. Look at your calendar for today. Anything you didn’t complete, move to another day and STOP thinking about it. It's on your calendar, it'll get done.
2. Look at your calendar for tomorrow. Any changes? Anything to add? Now you don't have to think about your workday tomorrow. You know what's on your schedule, you've adjusted it, let it go.
3. Say, "My work day is done. I did what I could. Today's work is complete. Everything else will get done at the perfect time. I am off and now I recharge."
4. Let go of work. Let go of work as you drive home. And if you work from home or once you get home from work, go for a short walk. Change the scenery so you can shift your energy. Be intentional in letting go of all your work stress so you don’t carry it over into your personal time.
5. As you move into your life time of your work/life balance, what do you want to do with the rest of the day? How do you want to spend your time? Exercise, meet someone for dinner, play, do something fun, or read a book. Really, there is no limit to what you can do here as long as it isn’t work related.

Sustainable work-life balance is KEY to create a life that you LOVE. Remember, no matter how much you love your work, you're still here for more than your work.

About Lisa Gornall

Lisa is a Spiritual Medium & Mentor, Mindset & Energy Strategist and Author.

She provides intuitive mentoring, energy strategizing & healing and a supportive community for you as you reach your personal and professional goals while navigating all the things that try to hold you back. She helps you accelerate your path forward while taking things off your to do list.

Her clients say her work is special, custom, unlike anything they’ve experienced and makes them feel amazing while reaching their goals. Lisa helps her clients heal their Success Wound? and become a successful high performer. She helps you reach your goals and LOVE your life.

Her programs are high touch and focus on helping high performers and achievers operate at your next level by mastering your time, relationships, mindset and energy so you can have it ALL in and out of work. Sustainable work/life balance is very possible.

Apply to work with Lisa?here?Her personal programs range from 2 months, 6 months, or a 12 month commitment as she guides you to operate at your next level and reach your goals, live your dreams and LOVE your life. She also offers programs for high performance teams to help them balance their energy and prevent burnout. Sustainable work-life balance is very possible.

Reach your goals AND love your life. Lisa helps you have it ALL.

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