If how too's were enough...

…We’ld all be skinny rich and happy!

When we get into the how, we can easily get lost in the mechanics and look for what is not working and drown in the fixing of…and find ourselves in an endless loop of what’s not working and what do I need to do?

Guilty here for sure. Its not to say that education does not work or that how to’s are useless as they are NOT! There are many amazing tools to help us in how we show up! They are tools and they are not US!

Its that, if the how to’s are “running the show” then do you ever find a way to enough, complete, or happy?

Do you know when the project has had enough or you can allow the painting to stand in its brilliance and deliver what you wanted it to? What is the purpose? What are you trying to achieve?

It can be a dizzying experience as the list of how to’s hop into the drivers seat. Trusting self and believing the right thing will happen comes to mind here. If I am coming from the how to experience then I am always questioning whether I have made the right choice and I am not trusting my brilliant self!

From my experience when I move from my centre, my truth, I do not have to question. When I come from of my mechanical thinking what shows up are things that revolve around what else do I need to learn to deliver or what do I need to fix so that I can ________? Fill in the blank.

No wonder trusting self can be such an evasive animal!

When I come from my centre, there may be some mechanics that need to be in place to create, but these things arise from a different place ad it is a place of knowing that can be trusted!

Be YOU! Do You! People that are meant to show up will show up! You do need to remember to show up! Show up as your best you!! Be all you! Not everyone is going to fit into your universe and that’s ok. You are what you have been looking for!

 by Kate Unger