How To Tell Someone They Are Being Too Clingy & What To Do About It

Today we are going to look at how to tell someone that they are being too clingy which was a question that Quoran asked a while ago. Here is my answer in how to effectively deal with the situation:

I believe the best way is to just tell the person that you have something that you would like to share with them to begin an open discussion.

Next, tell them that when they (specific incidences of clingy behavior they demonstrate) makes you feel (claustrophobic, or whatever it is that you feel) and that you would love It if they could do (put in a different behavior) instead.

Let them know that the relationship would be strengthened by their ability to act in this way instead of the current way, which is actually pushing you away.

Give them some time to shift their behavior and then make a decision whether to keep them in your life or to let them go by having fewer interactions with them till the relationship naturally ends (since you already told them why you were having an issue with them with their clinginess).

This is really a method for creating much healthier boundaries.

If done with compassion, most people are able to hear your concern and make the required change, because few people want to lose close friends.

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