How to Talk about Everything!

Up until now, there has been nothing like Compassionate Mediation?!

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If an individual or a couple wanted to get divorced, they would hire an attorney, they would hire collaborative attorneys, they would go to divorce mediation, and they would get divorced.

If they wanted to go to marriage counseling, they'd find a therapist, or a counselor, or a clergy, and get some counseling.

And I found that after doing 30 years of working with individuals and couples, it's often not that clear cut.

Because people have “Parts” that are ambivalent about what they want to do. They have a Part that wants to stay, another Part wants to leave. Parts that feel hurt, sad, scared, angry, guilty, resentful, impatient, worried, hopeless, hopeful.

Even when they're in marriage counseling, one or both members of the couple may have thought about leaving.

But unless you address it, it just kind of is an exiled feeling that never gets noticed. And with that, the person that's harbored that thought can't fully be present, because they're still considering “What would it be like if I ended this relationship?”

And when people get divorced, there are still times when they're wondering if it's the right thing to do. It's not always a linear process.

There's a lot of regret, or remorse, of what if's. But by then, it's usually too late because the lawyers are involved, the process is started, everyone's been told, and it carries out the trajectory in the direction of marital dissolution.

So when you have marriage counseling and you have divorce mediation, they are two different skill sets. Compassionate Mediation merges them together.

In the context of Compassionate Mediation, the couple can talk about it all.

They don't have to pretend they have this part that hasn't thought of leaving, and they don't have to pretend in divorce that they don't have a part that wishes they could stay together.

Compassionate Mediation empowers you to guide your clients to talk about everything. And they truly can even though they've thought of divorce.

Your clients will learn how to connect to their best Self, let go of the limiting beliefs and judgments they took on with each other, unburden the pain from the past, and relate from their heart.

When they do that, they can create a whole new relationship, and they often do — and you've facilitated it.

And I've often said, if we could just spare our children from the shrapnel of our animosity, there would be a lot more happy families.

Compassionate Mediation teaches Compassionate Communication and fosters compassionate relationships with empathy.

I give you the information that you can give your clients as to what all their different options are. I also give you the information to help you explain to them how to understand their rights and finances.

And then you help them talk about everything and create whatever relationship is going to be in the highest good moving forward.

Compassionate Mediation? is a hybrid.

I use the term Compassionate Mediation, but perhaps I should have used conscious compassionate conflict resolution.

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