How to take control when you're facing redundancy
Anne Wilson SFHEA
Award-winning Women’s Development Trainer | Licensed Springboard trainer | AGCAS Leadership Trainer | WHEN Facilitator | AGCAS President's Medal 2024 | Strengths Practitioner | Career Coach | Blogger | Speaker |
The process of change is something every single one of us will experience, whether it's change you've initiated or change beyond your control.
When experiencing a major change, you'll experience shock and surprise. This may be followed by denial- 'this can’t be happening!' This may lead to feelings of depression and lack of energy. You may feel anxious and experience low mood and morale.
Over time you start to adjust to the new reality, adapt and accept, try out new behaviours and approaches and -in most cases- integrate the change. But it's often difficult, especially if you're facing redundancy.
While you can try and rationalise change objectively, there is no escaping its emotional impact. Going through change is painful. The challenge is that everyone experiences and processes change differently. People vary in the length of time it takes to accept and integrate change. No one person’s experience will be the same.? You may also swing back and forth through the different stages on the change curve a few times before accepting it.
I recall a meeting where Management explained that they were making changes to the organisational structure. In the new structure, the job role I'd held would cease to exist. I was reassured that I would have a role at the same level, though (inevitably) I would need to apply for one of the new roles. Rationally I could understand this- but my reaction? I was in floods of tears…it felt as though all the work I’d done in my current role was for nothing and my contribution wasn't valued. Being told ‘it’s not you, it’s the role’ was of little comfort. I experienced it personally!
Over time, most will adjust to the new reality and start to accept the change, trying out new behaviours and approaches. You will eventually integrate the change into your life.
Managing change- what can you control?
If you find yourself in a situation such as losing a job, which is beyond your control, what can you do? Despite feeling powerless in this situation, there are still things you can do that will help you regain some degree of control.
Allow yourself to grieve and process the change.
It's important not to bottle up your feelings. Give yourself permission to experience the inevitable emotions that accompany the change. Talk to those you're close to and begin to process your feelings before you start making applications for new roles. If you're still at the angry stage of the change curve, your negativity will leak out in interviews and won't land well with the interview panel- even though your anger is entirely understandable.
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What support will your organisation provide?
What can you do to support yourself?
The greater degree of control you exert in this situation, the more resilient you'll become. The more resilient you are, the more your confidence will grow. This will will help you come across well at interview, increasing your odds of securing job offers.
However you experience change, reminding yourself that what you're feeling is normal can provide reassurance. You will over time emerge through change stronger and better able to deal with the subsequent curve balls life throws at you.
When we are no longer able to change a situation- we are challenged to change ourselves. Viktor E. Frankl
See also my post on CVs.
First published on www.thecareercatalyst.co.uk
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9 个月This is a methodical guide whatever stage of this reality you are at Anne Wilson SFHEA, really helpful.
Sound advice and practical tips
Service Manager - Occupational Health & Wellbeing
9 个月Well said Anne!
Empowering HE Students for Career Success ? Employability & Careers Consultant @ University of Suffolk ? MA Career Development & Management ?QCD Level 7 ? AGCAS Trainer
9 个月Sound advice as always Anne