Is there a way to be successful?
Chris Folayan
Award-winning Serial Entrepreneur, Author & Speaker /?Multiple?Exits?/ Venture Builder / Board Advisor / Podcast Host
Why some people are successful and others are not.
Fact: Success isn't the result of making money. Money is the result of success.
TIP: Luck has nothing to do with it. Luck is a human construct caused by the lack of understanding of an outcome. So that can’t be it.? Could it be education? So many educated people are not successful, so that can’t be it. Sector, geography, race, financial status all have nothing to do with being successful. So why are some people successful and others not? Let’s dive into it and figure out why.
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As aspiring founders and entrepreneurs, we're all driven by a burning desire for success. Wealth and money doesn’t mean you are successful. In reality money is the outcome of success, not the other way round like most people think. But what truly separates those who achieve success from those who don't? The answer might surprise you: it's not about conformity, your education, your social class or following the well-trodden path. I am sure you have had a boss or two who were successful with less knowledge or education than you may have, and you wondered to yourself how in the world is he/she is so successful? The answer may shock you but it’s not that hard. It is all about your mindset, goals and holding yourself accountable for yourself. In fact, embracing your own unique path and setting clear, audacious goals is the key to Success = financial freedom, long-term fulfillment, and leaving your mark on the world.
Many successful individuals throughout history have emphasized the power of deliberate goal setting and a clear positive ambitious mindset. We see this in the lives of countless entrepreneurs and CEOs who actively pursued predetermined, ambitious goals, leading them to continued success and lasting impact. This isn't just about financial gain, though that can be a powerful motivator. Having clearly defined goals in all aspects of life provides direction and purpose, pushing you forward and keeping you motivated when the inevitable roadblocks and challenges appear.
Remember, our thoughts and beliefs are the architects of our reality. We truly do become what we think about. Thinkers and leaders like Marcus Aurelius and Ralph Waldo Emerson understood this connection perfectly. As Emerson famously said, "a man is what he thinks about all day long." This powerful sentiment is echoed by William James and Norman Vincent Peale, who highlight the importance of belief and attitude. James states, "if you wish to be good, you will be good," while Peale emphasizes the link between belief in oneself and prosperity.
We all possess power within us that can be tapped into at any time. One that can activate your path to success. The power of positive thinking is undeniable. Our minds are like fertile soil, returning whatever we plant within them. If you plant weeds it will grow weeds of abundance. If you plant trees and amazing plants it will become a sanctuary of amazing produce. Feeding your mind with successful thoughts and ideas and innovations will ultimately yield such fruit. By focusing on positive thoughts, our faith and beliefs, we hold the power to shape our lives, cultivate success, and achieve dreams once thought impossible. It's important to remember that the truly valuable things in life, like our minds, souls, and relationships, are free. Given to us to utilize to do good and succeed. You simply have to believe. How do you think athletes succeed, and movie stars succeed? They set goals, train, believe, plant positive goals and visualize success. Steve Jobs, Oprah, Michael Jordan, Richard Brandson and so many others who we know and classify as successful today have all used this method of positive thinking and belief.?
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So, how do we translate this knowledge into action? I encourage you to set clear, inspiring goals for yourself and work towards them with a relaxed and positive mindset. Employ visualization techniques to see yourself achieving your goals, feeling the emotions of success, and living the life you envision. Remember, your thoughts directly impact your life. This has been proven time over time over hundreds of years.?
This brings us to what I call “The law of success”. It's not a new concept, but often overlooked or misunderstood. This law simply states that your actions and thoughts have the power to shape your future. This is also scripturally sound by the way in almost all religions. As Sir Isaac Newton's law of physics teaches us, every action has an equal and opposite reaction. This applies to your personal success as well. To achieve a fulfilling life, take control of your thoughts and actions.
Your Success Mindset Exercise
I would like you to do the following. Identify and write down your specific goals, focusing on positive thoughts and replacing any negativity with mental images of success. Remember, you hold your God given power to control your mind. Do more than usual to achieve your goals which you have set, knowing that the returns will be proportionate to your effort. Be willing to go the extra mile, embracing the challenges and setbacks as opportunities for growth and learning. Do this and you will be on your path towards shaping your mind to be successful and experiencing success. When you have faith and a goal you are unstoppable. This is why those who are successful win. They always keep their eyes on the prize and don’t let situations bring them down. Situations end up becoming opportunities to be even more successful.
I realize forming new habits for success and happiness takes dedication and consistent effort. Practice faith and persistence for 45 days, and watch your life transform. As the Sermon on the Mount reminds us, "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you."
Stay positive and motivated, remembering that earning money comes from providing value to others through your innovative services or products. Embrace the power of goal setting, and start shaping the future you deserve today. Remember, the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Take that step now, and let your unwavering belief and positive actions propel you towards the extraordinary life you were meant to live.
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By Chris Folayan