How to Succeed in Sales as an Introvert

How to Succeed in Sales as an Introvert

If you met me at a party I wouldn’t have much to say. If you sat next to me on a long flight I may not say a word to you the entire trip.

I’m an introvert.

If you saw me on YouTube, Twitter, Google Hangouts, in a TV interview or at one of my sales seminars you would never know it has never been easy for me to start a conversation with people I don’t know. After college, I was terrified to go on a job interview until I realized employers weren’t going to come to my house and hire me.

I had been selling cars for seven years and still never got comfortable saying hello to a customer. Yet I still reached the top 1% of all the salespeople in the auto industry.

You can adapt, and be an introvert or an extrovert, depending on the situation. If you are hosting a party you appear to become an extrovert to keep things going and keep the guests happy, but when you’re a guest at a party you appear to become an introvert. As a professional speaker and educator I become an extrovert in order to deliver information. But when I attend seminars as a guest I am much more introverted.

So how do you become an extrovert in sales situations when you are naturally comfortable being an introvert?

I use these 7 tips to step out of my comfort zone:

  1. Get passionate.
    I get so excited about what I’m selling that I’m compelled to share it with the world! When you are passionate about your product, idea or service you pay less attention to how you are perceived. Instead, you pay more attention to showing that excitement for what you have to offer and how it will benefit the customer!

  2. Get out of your comfort zone once per day.
    It is very important for me to do things that make me uncomfortable. You need to be courageous and make it a point to face your fears, no matter how big or small. The single scariest thing for me was visiting my customers or prospects in person. So that is the first thing I did every day to get over my fear, which instilled me with courage, belief in myself and changed my focus from limitations to possibilities.

  3. Say hello to everyone you pass.
    I refuse to walk past any person without acknowledging them. I force myself to look everyone in the eyes and say hello. This is like exercising, it builds a muscle that enables me to decide at will when I want to be extroverted, whether I’m in a sales call or any other situation. 

  4. Go outside.
    Literally step out of your comfort zone by leaving your home or office often so you can socialize with people. When I move to a new city I will go to the same place over and over until I am comfortable and know everyone there. I have done this same thing with my children, brining them to the same grocery store every morning until they are so familiar they can talk with the people working there as if they were family. 

  5. Help others make sales.
    If I go a few days without making a sale for myself I immediately offer my help to other salespeople. It’s a great way to get outside your own head, because with several failed closes it’s easy to become introverted and anxious. But by working with someone else’s prospects and having nothing to lose yourself you open up, feel more relaxed and regain your confidence. Once you score a sale for someone else, dive headfirst back into your own prospects again.

  6. Be so persistent it bothers people.
    In life and business you won’t become successful if you never get criticized, especially in sales. You need to follow up on customers so much that they actually complain about it, and once they do you need to keep following up until they admire you for your persistence. When you believe in your product, company and yourself you will be willing to insist—and risk being criticized for it.

  7. Keep busy.
    When you are constantly on the go you don’t have time to be uncomfortable or doubt yourself. If you’re busy you are always asking people for help, getting help, and talking to people because you are running from one sales meeting or event to the next—So get out and get moving!

I talk about this in my book, The 10X Rule, and give you the tools to get started with all this. What kind of challenges might you run into? How do you make 10X a truly persistent discipline? You certainly cannot start yesterday, and if you wait until tomorrow you won't be a success because you will have violated an important tenet of the successful: act now.

10X YOUR MONEY
10X YOUR GOALS
10X YOUR HAPPINESS
10X YOUR POSSIBILITIES

Let me know in the comments below how The 10X Rule has helped your life.

Be great,
GC

Grant Cardone is a New York Times best-selling author, speaker, motivator and sales training expert. His books, sales training programs and seminars provide people of all professional backgrounds with the practical tools necessary to build their own economies towards the path to true freedom.  

“Success is your duty, obligation, responsibility.”  GC

Grant created Cardone University, a customized sales training program for Fortune 500 companies, small businesses, success-minded individuals, and entrepreneurs. Follow him on Twitter.

David Rozek

3 Decades of Proven Automotive Dealership Growth | Generative AI Strategist | Digital & Social Media Growth Engineer | Driven by Purpose, Persistence, and a burning Desire.

6 年

I have met Grant many times at Digital Dealer, NADA, and out at Social Gatherings. Grant is great onstage and does the things needed when he has to be the Super Business Professional that he is today. I have learned much from Grant over the years and if you take his NO BS attitude to Hart you will be Successful in everything you do through Hard work and the right Attitude.

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Joshua Mininger

Business Development Manager at Solarity

9 年

The 10X Rule introduced me to the exact strategy to use to handle fear, and in the most practical way ever. Not a "think positive thoughts" way, but real and workable. It's slowly changing my life, and once I truly wrap my head around it it's going to start changing my life FAST!!

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Evon Mendrin, CFP?, CSLP?

I help Optometrists master their money. Owner of Optometry Wealth Advisors. Host of The Optometry Money Podcast ??.

9 年

Great article, thanks Grant. I feel like I'm in the boat you're describing, and have to make sure I'm taking myself out of my comfort zone daily instead of backing away from things that make me uncomfortable. Keep spreading the wisdom!

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Carlos Barberena

Software engineer, tech nerd, Jack of all trades, master of none.

9 年

Introverts have an inate ability to lead. IMO, this is due to time alone, thinking, gathering your thoughts, moreover analyzing your environment. Time spent alone, in silence has layed the proper foundation for me to lead, especially by example, after extensive thought analysis. Great read!

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Josh McKnight

?We help busy families upsize their home with ease using our Simplicity Method … Realtor at The McKnight Team of Keller Williams

9 年

Great read filled with some good nuggets

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