HOW TO STOP BEING JUDGED

Of course, we have opinions about our partner - opinions about someone who isn't even in our life anymore.

We can call them opinions when they're not interfering with their beliefs or activities.

However, when they start to give their opinions about you having chosen to wrong profession or why you keep spending so much time on your "hobby" and not on them instead. This is no longer an 'opinion.' Now you're being judged; judged by the one you thought you could trust.

Artists are being judged for not being serious enough; being judged for taking risky chances on their families. Spending money on their "so-called careers" and not on their family.

How I can help is to have a good conversation with you on a call (no video needed) and talk about what's going on. Not with you and your (ex-)partner(s) or parents. No, just with you.

The difference in our conversation is that I know what information to use and what information I can leave out. When we speak, some information is from the unconscious (think of symbolism or metaphors, for example).

What I help you do is to connect this in such a way that it changes your understanding of things; what once was a problem becomes resolved because you can begin to find solutions and opportunities to succeed.

We do this in such ways that this new understanding changes your attitude. And this is what we're going for; we want to not just understand things but do things differently as well because of it.

The hurt from being judged can no more exist when you perceive things in a different light. The hurt is gone, and you can take action feeling more motivated and confident that whatever they once said or did no longer stops you in your direction to success.