How to stay motivated in every day work routine?

I have seen hundreds of people using phrases and word forms frequently during their routine every day. When I have not taken a healthy breakfast with my favorite coffee I will express it with words such as ‘I’m down’ or ‘it’s a horrible morning’. When the current project is not running the way I expected it to be, I ‘don’t know how to make it happen’ and when my team is unable to create the desired synergy ‘why it doesn’t work for me, why me?’

Well, it is important for all of us to accept the fact that motivation is not a myth and we can have it. We have to work towards finding the stimulus that motivates us. Things will happen for us when we work towards making them happen in earnest. If for few reasons things are not happening the way we have planned, wanted and wished then there are issues we need to reach to and deal with. How many of us actually are able to reach to the issues that stop us from being happy, motivated and successful? Quite a few only, I am sure.

I strongly believe, when we use too many negative forms and combinations of words to describe our feelings, thoughts and emotions during our day, we are taking the initial step towards blocking motivation. The repetition of similar phrases of distress, disappointment, dissatisfaction and absence of gains keep any sense of achievement at bay. We are never quite there because we are thinking in all the possibly little negative ways. These little negative phrases that we use to describe how we are feeling during the day make little vibes around us and these vibes often are strong enough to drive away people from around us. The repetitive negativity turns our vibes into negative energy that repels and we are eventually convinced of how unhappy and unsuccessful we are. I have met salesmen, who would return from a meeting with a hanging face because the person they were communicating with was unable to connect with their positivity. Why does that happen?

The answer is simple: we all need to retain our positive energy. We need to control the negative feelings we have from every day little chunks of disappointments. We need to use our time, effort, thoughts and emotions towards creative endeavours so that we remain positively motivated towards our goals. Little words of courtesy, polite greetings and smiles make our morning at work bearable. Similarly, positive remarks help us in thinking positively. Controlling negative emotions and channelizing them into something more productive may also prevent distress and disappointment. You will be able to close your sales deal only when the person you are approaching finds you pleasantly positive. If you are uneasy with the success ratio of your own skills for selling, who would believe in what you are convincing them to buy? Think about it and work towards creating positivity in your own thoughts, your perspective and your feelings. I am planning different motivational talk along with Dubai well-known speakers and entrepreneurs. If you are one of those budding entrepreneurs or business development managers who have to crack the myth of business success get in touch with me or join our community of ambitious networkers by writing to [email protected]