How to Speak Like a Leader: Small Vocal Changes that Deliver Big Results

We use our voices every day, but how often do we consider their impact? According to my latest podcast guest, our tone, volume, and vocal presence can be critical assets in shaping how we’re perceived and in commanding authority—especially for women in law.

In this week’s episode of? The Powerhouse Lawyers Podcast , I had an eye-opening conversation with Sammi Sadicario, a voice educator and communication consultant who’s redefining how we view the power of our voice. Her expertise, rooted in over 20 years of experience in musical theater and performance, has helped corporate leaders, attorneys, and executives unlock their full vocal potential and build confidence in their unique voices.

Key Takeaways from Our Conversation

1. Your Voice is Your Power Our voices communicate far more than just words. Tonality, inflection, and volume are instrumental in conveying authority, empathy, and confidence. For female attorneys, developing vocal control is key to navigating professional environments where they’re often judged on how they speak.
2. The Power of Awareness Many of us may not even be aware of how our voice comes across. The first step to transforming your vocal presence is becoming conscious of your tone and inflection. When we understand our voice’s impact, we can intentionally project confidence, strength, and empathy, depending on the setting.
3. Playing with Tone: Code-Switching for Strategic Communication Sammi introduces the concept of “code-switching,” which involves adjusting our tone based on our audience. For example, when addressing male colleagues in a corporate setting, lowering your pitch and speaking more deliberately can command attention. Alternatively, speaking with a lighter, more open tone in a room of supportive women fosters connection and openness.
4. Singing as a Tool for Resilience Here’s a fun insight: Sammi recommends a simple practice to strengthen vocal control—singing! She explains that singing expands your vocal range and engages your breath, creating both mental clarity and confidence. Our voices are directly tied to our breath, and by practicing breath control through singing, we can access our calmest, most grounded selves.

Why Your Voice Matters in Law

Female attorneys, especially those often told they’re “too assertive” or “too quiet,” can benefit from understanding the science behind vocal tonality. Sammi’s methods—rooted in psychology, neuroscience, and theater—teach professionals how to use their voice strategically to inspire trust and lead with authority.

Ready to Unlock the Power of Your Voice?

If you’re ready to take control of how your voice represents you, consider Sammi’s approach:

• Start with Awareness: Pay attention to how you sound in different settings.
• Own Your Breath: Breath control is essential to maintaining vocal strength and composure.
• Experiment with Tone: Try code-switching to suit different situations and observe the impact.
• Start Singing: Tap into the power of music to build resilience and confidence.

I truly believe this episode has the power to shift how you approach every conversation, courtroom moment, and leadership opportunity.?

Listen in and start using your voice as a tool for confidence and connection.?

Until next week,?

Erin

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Erin Gerner is a former lawyer turned coach, entrepreneur, and host of the Powerhouse Lawyers podcast. She helps female lawyers step into their power, break through limiting beliefs, and build lives they can’t wait to wake up for. Learn more about her coaching programs and schedule an obligation free strategy call, connect with her HERE .?