How to Show Up as Your Best Self in 2022
Sheri Nasim
CEO | Author | Speaker | Leadership Consultant | Forbes? Contributor | Board Member, North San Diego Business Chamber
Chances are, January has you thinking about how to be your best self this year.?Doing so likely means taking stock of the rote habits in your life that are causing a drag on your energy. Simple enough in theory.?Yet, simple is rarely simplistic.
19th century philosopher William James opined that all of our lives are but a mass of habits. Research published in a 2006 study found that about 40% of our daily action is habitual, which is still a good chunk of time spent in mindless behavior. And that was more than 15 years ago.?How much more distracted, distant, and drained are we today by our digital lives and full-frontal political polarization?
If habits and distractions require little conscious thought, it may be time to do some self-evaluation.?What is not working in your life??Where is there room to do better??How are you unconsciously sabotaging your own success?
Is it possible that you don’t have a definition of success that is truly meaningful??Does success mean dropping weight or having more Instagram-worthy moments??Or, does success mean showing up for people and committing yourself to social connection?
Maybe it means showing up for yourself first.?Maybe you do that by switching one bad habit for one good habit. Not because your waistline is growing, but because, in order to show up as your best self this year, you need to get real about the cumulative effects of unhealthy habits.
There are plenty of resources available with tips and tools for how master the habits in your everyday life. But, before you pick up a title like Gretchin Rubin’s Better Than Before: Mastering the Habits of Our Everyday Lives , try Rubin’s The Happiness Project: Or Why I Spent a Year Trying to Sing in the Morning, Clean My Closets, Fight Right, Read Aristotle, and Generally Have More Fun . If you want to explore your why on a more existential level, try this TED interview with David Brooks about his book, The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life .
There’s a reason why you made it to January 2022.?Whether or not you’re into making New Year’s resolutions, don’t let bad habits and distractions keep you from showing up as your best self.?
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Question: What is one good habit that you could switch for one that isn’t serving you?
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Sheri Nasim? is President and CEO of?Center for Executive Excellence , a leadership consulting firm headquartered in San Diego, CA. She is the author of?Work On Purpose: How to Connect Who You Are With What You Do .?
Driven by the premise that excellence is the result of aligning people, purpose and performance, Center for Executive Excellence facilitates training in leading self, leading teams and leading organizations. To learn more, visit us today at?www.executiveexcellence.com ?or subscribe?to receive?CEE News !
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2 年Great read! Love that you posed the question, "what is one GOOD habit that you can switch for one that isn't serving you?" - this is the easiest way to free up hours of your schedule and eliminate what you've been doing out of habit, guilt or pressure.