How should be the relationship between a wife and husband?
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15 April 2024
How should be the relationship between a wife and husband?
*Spirituality is nothing but your behavior.
Divinity is nothing but your behaviour.
Who deserves to receive the grace of Almighty?
When you deserve to receive the grace of God?
*When you were married, your husband was from a rich family. But afterwards he can become
poor? Will you leave your husband?
*When you were married, your wife was beautiful. But afterwards she became handicapped.
Will you leave your wife?
*When you were married, your husband was smart. But afterwards he became handicapped.
Will you leave your husband?
*You must be ready for every circumstance, everything.
Today you are rich, tomorrow you may be poor.
Today your health is good, tomorrow your health may not be good.
Today you are young, tomorrow you may be old.
Today is a good time, tomorrow it may not be a good time for you.
*It may be the case with the wife!
Same may be the case with the husband!
*There should be no change in your behavior when circumstances change.
There are more chances that the circumstances may change.
*You will be treated as selfish if your behavior is not good during the bad times.
*Ups and downs are essential parts of life.
*The person who remains the same, who doesn't change. His behavior is always good.
Such a person succeeds in life in a true sense.
Such a person is appreciated by everyone.
Such a person is eligible to receive the grace of Almighty.
And such a relationship is the true relationship between husband and wife.
*A wife can not leave her husband.
A husband can not leave his wife.
Even if it is not a good time.
Even if the circumstances are bad.
Except in the exceptional cases.
Except with the order of Almighty.
Except for Godly or divine purpose.
Except for liberation, Nirvana or Moksh.
Happy Durga Ashtami.
*Jai Sri Radhe Krishna!
Hare Krishna!
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11 October 2021
Strangers became ours
*Strangers became ours!
Ours became strangers!
*It is the tradition of the world!
It is the record of this world!
*Wife was stranger one day!
Husband was stranger one day!
*Parents were ours!
Brothers were ours!
Sisters were ours!
Friends were ours!
*But they became!
Like strangers!
*Same is going to happen!
With your all relations today!
*They will become strangers one day!
You will become stranger for them!
3 October 2021
Husband has to be tricky
How to maintain successful marriage?
In the age of today, it is becoming more and more difficult to maintain successful marriage.
Cases of divorce are increasing. After marriage most of the times husband is forced either to
leave the wife or his parents. This is due to increasing expectations from both the sides. For
husband it becomes very difficult to act. His role becomes too much challenging.
In such cases, husband has to be tricky
In the age of today, when many girls want that the husband must keep relation only with her and
her family after the marriage. He should keep distance with his family.
Parents of husband expects that they have brought up him, they have spent money on his
education etc. Hence he should serve them in the old age.
While many girls want that her husband should not serve his parents in the old age.
It is due to lack of ethical values in the age of today.
Many girls want that her husband should treat them like hero in movies. Hero runs after the
heroine. In the same way husband should run after her.
Hence the husband has to be tricky. He needs to do acting. He must show his wife that he does
not keep much concern with his parents and family. But he must keep moral support with his
parents and family.
Husband needs to be tricky. He needs to show. He needs to show his newly wedded wife that
he loves to her only. He needs to show his parents and family that he loves them only.
He can have mental support to his parents and family but physical support to his newly wedded
wife and her family.
In such cases he can help his parents financially and by other ways secretly so that marriage
should not break.
But such wives whose thinking is like this they can not remain happy. Their children will also
repeat the same thing in her old age.
Then he can enjoy successful marriage.
He must avoid the quarrels in the family at all costs. Hence he needs to be tricky.
His role becomes challenging to maintain the relationship with both the sides. Since he can not
leave his newly wedded wife and also his parents or family.
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21 Jan 2021
Who is friend? Who is enemy?
One who takes you near to God!
He is your true friend!
One who takes away from God!
He is your true enemy!
Even if he is your husband!
Even if he is your father!
Meera left her husband and in laws!
Prahlad left his father!
The relations of today!
All are artificial relations!
You have changed so many husbands!
You have changed so many wives!
You have changed so many fathers!
You have changed so many sons!
In your thousands of births!
No one is husband, no one is wife!
No one is father, no one is son!
When father dies!
Do you know?
What Krishna says?
Krishna says!
O my son!
Why you weep?
Your father has not died!
He is still alive!
Why you weep?
I am your eternal father!
I am here!
Why you weep?
Why you worry?
Happy Father's Day!
8 December 2020
Don't do this in initial five years of marriage
This is equally applicable to both, husband and wife. This needs to be read by all concerned including the husband, wife, their parents and those who are going to be married.
Don't do this in initial five years of marriage if you don't want divorce and other problems. Since initial five years in marriage are very crucial and your entire married life depends upon these initial five years.
1/ Don't try to rule over your spouse.
2/ Respect your in-laws. Try to accommodate them. They will not disturb in your privacy. Do not boast about yourself, your parents, your status or your family. It may result adversely in your happy married life. Since the smell of perfume can not be concealed.
3/ Do not fear about your privacy from in-laws.
4/ If you are living with the parents of spouse, do not want to run away from them. They will never disturb your privacy.
5/ If you are not living with the parents of your spouse. If they visit to you, do not want to run away from them. Try to accommodate them. Treat them as if your parents. Else you may have very bad consequences of this. You may know after ten years of your marriage life.
6/ Often there are quarrels between the spouse. If the parents of wife visit, husband is not happy. If the parents of husband visit, wife is not happy. This trend is very bad and this may even lead to divorce.
Recently one IAS Officer did suicide due to this reason. His wife did not allow him to talk with his parents. She did not respect his parents. She wanted that he should not keep any concerns with his parents after the marriage. It may disturb their happy married life. This conception is not true.
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Your children will also learn from you. They may also do the same thing when you become old.
Neither wife nor husband should involve in this type of act. Else they may have very serious consequences. This may cause divorce also. Your spouse may not say anything to you but he may keep this thing in the mind. This may reduce your respect in the mind of your spouse.
7/ If you do not know cooking or any other thing, don't worry about this. Due to this reason, don't try to keep distance from your in laws. You may learn after some time with the love of your spouse and in laws.
8/ It is the duty of the husband to share required part of his income with the wife even if she is employed. Do not think that she is employed, hence she does not need money. Do not see the income of the spouse with the eyes of greed. It may spoil your love and relationship.
9/ The husband should know the fact that he is not child now. He should not live in the lap of his parents like a baby. He must behave like a mature person after marriage. He should keep balance between his parents and the wife. It is very delicate period for him.
10/ There should not be competition between the mother and the wife of the husband. In some cases there is unnecessary fear. The mother wants to show that he is of her not of his wife. The wife wants to show that he is of her and not of his mother. This trend is very serious and shameful, often it leads to divorce in many cases. Husband is not a cake which can be cut and may be distributed between his mother and wife. He must give importance to both. The wife should treat herself as the daughter of her mother in law and it will prove true if she continues it even in adverse situations.
11/ Whatever you want to make yourself, you become. If you want to make yourself weak, delicate, Kaamchor, you will become. If you want to make yourself as hard working, you can become. There is no doubt of this. If you do not make yourself hard working during this period,
you will make your body and mind very weak. Thus you may invite many diseases pertaining to your body and mind after some years of the marriage. You may know it after some time.
12/ Forward it to others in the required language if you are agreeing with these points and you don't want to see any more divorce cases. If you want peaceful and happy married life of all concerned.
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11 Nov 2020
What is character?
Character can not be certified by the people.
Character is inbuilt nature of human, gifted by Almighty.
Often people think that if you have relation with more than one lady or gentleman, then you become bad character. No it is not true.
Character is the requirement. If you fulfill the requirements of other selflessly, then you are helping other. Hence you are good character. Requirements may be any. Requirements may be pertaining to finance, things or body.
Good character is when you do not cheat other, you don't trouble other. Your actions are selfless.
Bad character is when you cheat other, you trouble other. Your actions are selfish.
If the husband of any lady is impotent. He can not satisfy his wife and he seeks your help. Then it is your duty to help. Even if his wife is very fat or ugly. You should not expect anything in return. If her husband can not give her the child. If husband and wife, both wants child from you.
Then, it is not sin. Then it is your help and helping attitude to both for running their family. But condition is that you must be selfless, you should not expect any thing in return. There are similar cases in Mahabharat and other scriptures.
Sex is also like other normal things. Do not make sex abnormal thing.
If a lady is very fat and ugly, will you like to have sex with her?
If man is impotent, can he do sex?
Hence sex is having its own values and dignity.
Never devalue sex.
Character can not be decided only by the sex.
Sex is also a tool to worship Almighty inside the human if you are selfless.
If you very tired or injured. Even then if you do sex, then it becomes help and worship to Almighty.
Almighty doesn't want anything. He just wants your happiness.
Even single father or single mother allowed.
Jesus was born by single mother.
Kabir was born by single mother.
Spirituality does not bind for any thing provided your action is selfless.
Only you have made any thing right or wrong as per social norms, not the Spirituality or Almighty.
18 August 2019
Fear in Love
I could not understand why people fear while talking about love?
Why people fear in expression of love?
Love is the natural phenomenon specifically gifted by Almighty to special people!
If you are married lady and and I am gent. And if I love you, then there is no harm if my love is pure if my love is not for lust. Then your husband should not mind if he has faith.
Love is unlimited, infinite in nature. We can love thousands of people.
Modern ladies are doing job now a days. They need to meet many men in the office in
connection of the job. If their husbands start doubts on them then no woman can do the job.
Hence the bonding of relationship between husband and wife should be strong enough.
If love does not fear. If love is open. If love is not secret. If love is not for the lust. Then no one should fear in expressing the love.
If love is in presence of all. Then there should be no fear, no doubt on love.
One may love you as a brother. One may love you as a friend. If there is no understanding between you and your husband, then your relationship with your husband is very weak.
My wife had made a brother. He was about fifteen years elder than my wife. We were family friends. Though earlier we were not knowing each other. He was having family of four children and one wife. We used to visit his home. He used to visit our home. Sometimes my wife used to visit alone to their house. Some times he used to visit in my home. I never objected.
Why there should be a doubt? I don't understand my wife? Why our relationship should be so weak?
If you have any doubt on me, you have doubt on yourself! If you have doubt on yourself, then you will doubt on me!
Since if I will take some advantage of you without your permission. Then you will not allow. You are not so weak!
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About the Author
Pravin Agrawal is Founder of Spiritual India WhatsApp Group, spread worldwide with eminent members from many countries and many fields like Science, Technology, Spirituality, Medicine, Ayurveda, Yoga, Naturopathy including Doctors, Engineers, Army Officers, etc. He is a God-realized soul. He is an engineering graduate from the world renowned university IIT Roorkee, India. He is imparting spiritual research & training for the people of all nations. Spirituality is the solution to every problem related to business, job, health, finance, love etc. As per the author this world seems to exist but it does not exist.
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27 December 2023
How to Finish Ignorance?
Hi Friends,
The main reason of present chaos in the world is ignorance.
Why so many fights, quarrels, pain, Leg-pulling etc in the present world?
Why so much evils in the world?
It is due to ignorance.
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Jai Sri Radhe Krishna!
Hare Krishna!
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25 March 2023
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Like poems!
They are based on!
Actual truth!
Which is encountered!
At different levels of knowledge!
*Almost all of my posts!
They are based on actual truth!
That is a universal truth!
At different levels of knowledge!
*I have no ability to write!
Whatever I can write!
Whatever I can do!
That is due to my Krishna!
*Almost all of my posts!
They have been created!
As per my thoughts!
Blessed by Sri Krishna!
*Hence they are not mine!
They belong to Sri Krishna!
*Jai Sri Radhe Krishna!
Hare Krishna!
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