How shitty situations can actually benefit us!
Felice Debloudts
Sr Executive Assistant, Office Mgr| event mgr | former stevedoring specialist | former warehouse mgr | former logistic mgr | leadership coach | Breath therapist | graphic designer | mom
Hi beautiful people!
?? Thanks for catching up with me!
I'm really sorry for the delay on this 3rd newsletter. I should have posted it in April, but bad stuff happened to me that blew me off my socks for a while. So I decided NOT to stress about anything, and take care of myself first without feeling guilty. (applause for me! woopwoop.)
I was working on this 1 year project (on a payroll) and all of the sudden they decided to put me aside. No warning, no communication. BAM, in my face.
?? I felt this.
They decided to proceed with someone who was a lot younger than me... (I'm 47. She's 22).
??Disbelief??Anger??Frustrations??Doubts??Worries??Sadness??
Being an experienced captain of my ship, I quickly realized I had to take charge of my negative emotions and thoughts, to get me through the storm efficiently.
So I asked myself 'What is the good I can get out of this sh*t?' And so I did! New opportunities occured. Different people crossed my path. Nice ideas were born to do stuff that resonates more with who I am.
?? I transformed pain + blocks into excitement and growth!
???? FACT
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Everyone gets his/ her part of problems in life. (sure! also famous/ successful people have to deal with pain. Maybe they have a fantastic career and lots of money, but they suffer from a terrible disease? Or they have everything but feel lonely, not having true love?
Everything happens for a reason. There is no such thing as coincidence.
I hear you thinking out loud: 'oh yeah, Felice? so can you tell me why I hate this! why I always seem to meet the wrong people! why people break my trust! why I feel bad about myself! why I suffer! why I have money issues! why the same thing keeps happening to me!'
? SOLUTION
Untill you realise what you did wrong for yourself, the same lesson will occur to you. It's not about the people who disappoint or hurt you. It's not about the bad circumstances. It's about you and your self-leadership.
Can you improve the way you think? Feel? and Act?
If you would like to know more on how to change your situation, get in touch with me (contact info is on my Linkedin profile).
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To your wellbeing,
Felice
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