How Satisfied are you in your Relationship?
Relationships & Satisfactions
How satisfied are you in your relationship with your mother, father, children, and your lover?
Obviously, relationships are different and no one is alike and we treat every relationship uniquely. We have better relationships with some and not so much with others, and for some, we no longer want to stay around and the relationship will fall apart for good.
I was with a group of people yesterday working on “Relationship problems.”
They started by stating their issues, and a younger one said that she has problems finding the right candidate, the other young person was in a relationship and she said that the boyfriend is not interested to get married at this time and one said that the boyfriend is cheating, and the older women said I am not happy and the husband is doing his things and they don’t have much in common anymore.
They were all seeking answers to what is best to do, and what is the course of action.
Working with people and issues is a delicate matter and when you get into details every individual needs a specific answer or course of action.
However, there is 1 answer regarding “what to do,” no matter what the issue is, and there are 10 steps to take the course of action.
The answer to “What to do” is;
1.?????“Self-esteem” & work on you.
When you work on yourself and you get better and better, you attract a better candidate to your life. You both are compatible with each other, and you enjoy your time together, you share similar interests, and you enjoy life together with having similar values.
Yes, there is only one answer, and “when you are better” your relationships are better.
No worries, stop worrying about how things are going to become, or whether you will find the right person or not, and start working on yourself, choose the things you like to do and accomplish, explore your life, and be a good player and you will not only enjoy every minute of your life, but then you will find a partner to share the things you enjoy in life.
Keep working on yourself and your life, no matter what age you are, where you are, and what you’ve been doing. The time is now and give yourself time to build yourself better and better every day and in whatever that brings joy to your life.
The higher level of “Relationship satisfaction” is a direct connection with a “Higher level of life satisfaction.”
And here is the course of action; -
1.?????Work on yourself, when you get better, you crave the things that are better for you, you see better things in life, and you attract better relationships to your life.
2.?????Don’t settle for anything but what you like to attract to your life. Don’t settle for less and seek the ones that support you and your dreams, and never accept toxic relationships or stay where you are not satisfied.
3.?????Relationships must be joyful and stay in the state of joy, respect your value system, and stand tall alongside your wishes and dreams. If someone does not understand you or is not respectful of what you believe in, then respectfully leave the situation. Work on your life and keep building it.
4.?????Build relationships with the ones who add goodness to your life, who support you, who help you, who are resourceful, who are believers and say “things are possible” and can be achieved.
5.?????Eliminate toxic people and avoid negative thinking patterns. If you catch yourself or others that are pushing negatives, leave the situation and find your peace of mind in positive territories.
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6.?????Work on yourself constantly, learn more, be resourceful, seek answers from experts, find solutions, work on your communication and listening skills, work on understanding and respecting differences, and you will get better and better in any relationship.
7.?????Work on yourself and work on your life satisfaction. Work on your communication skills, learn something that you enjoy, sign up for classes, listen to motivational speakers, read books and articles of your interest, and build a better you.
8.?????Build a better thinking pattern. Build a positive thinking pattern. Do you respect yourself? Do you respect others? Do you love yourself? Learn to love yourself and love life.
9.?????You deserve to be loved and chosen, not almost loved, or almost chosen.
Choose to love yourself; when you do, you expect the same love from others and are not half-loved.
10.??You are pure love and you deserve the best according to who you are and what you want from your life.
Keep this in mind; - the higher level of “Relationship satisfaction” is a direct connection with a “Higher level of life satisfaction.”
Author – Mera Lord
If you are stuck somewhere in your life, ask for help. Help is out there and you can reach happiness in all areas of your life.
If you are not loving yourself you are stuck in a low self-esteem cycle, and you can learn to erase the past and move forward toward happiness and joy.
If you have had bad relationship experiences and can’t move forward, there are ways to get out and get into better and more fulfilling relationships.
Many people have gone through hardship and have come out with success by learning new methods and applying the skills.
I can help you if you need help.