How to quickly re-engineer yourself to achieve success and happiness in every area of your life?
Sebastien Leblond
Author, Asia's #1 NLP Master Trainer & Business Coach, Creating World-Class Leaders, Coaches, and Trainers.
This is part two of the re-master and re-engineers your series. In the last post, we talked about the five steps to master any skill in your life. It involved being able to spend more than ten thousand hours doing a certain practice.
Three approaches people generally use to approach any goal
Today we will look into fast-tracking this process and creating massive results. When we look into the human psyche, there are one of three things a person does to approach a goal whether it is a career, finance, or health.
A person either,
i) Invents a new strategy
ii) Does something that has been done in the past or,
iii) The art and science of modeling
Out of all these steps, modeling has been proven to be the most effective by many psychologists who have looked into this through hours of research and interviewing. Neuro-Linguistic Programming is based on this; it is a study of what works. A study of what works can then be structured and taught to millions of people so that they can get the result they want in life.
Modeling as the most effective strategy for success
Modeling is all about discovering our role model whoever that may be for us. They are usually someone who is performing at a high level in all walks of life. As we begin to study their behaviors and install them in our own lives, we also start to get the same results.
Why modeling outgrows the other two strategies?
The first one- inventing a new strategy means you are re-inventing the wheel. That means there is a lot of trial and error involved. You will most likely get there but it can take a lot longer than adapting to modeling.
The second strategy is fine if the old ways are creating the results you want in your life. If that’s not the case then, you are bound to feel like circling within the walls of the same room not getting anywhere close to the door that leads you to new insights and information.
3 aspects of mastering modeling
The great Albert Einstein says,” The definition of insanity is to do the same things every day and expecting to get a different kind of result.”
When we look into modeling on a deeper level, we begin to understand the mechanics of why it is so effective in creating marvelous results in your life.
Let us look into the three important aspects of modeling:
1) Finding a suitable role model: Before you decide to choose a role model, you need to know what you want. You need to begin with the end in mind or think about what your life is going to look like five years down the line. Who is that person that can take you there? As research now shows, 80 percent of success is a mindset. We must also begin to look at the mindset of our role models in the context of beliefs, values, skill sets, behaviors, and thinking processes. An article in the Inc says that successful people have an attitude of positivity, respect, and full of action. They are doing the work they love, and they love the people they work with.
2) Total Immersion: I want you to answer this, if you want to learn English, would you take a two-hour course every week for five years or spend a month in England or America. I am sure your answer would be the second. In the same way, when you immerse yourself in a training program like NLP, you are transferring the intellectual knowledge to your physical body as it becomes a part of your system and life.
3) Repetition: Repetition is the mother of all skills. According to a successful businessman, he says business is all about doing the same things again and again but with the same level of passion you began with.
All of what we offer here at NLP covers every aspect of modeling and much more. We want to see you succeed at the highest level in whatever you are doing. We have so many successes of our students doing amazing things, creating powerful results.
With the tools and techniques you learn in NLP, you can maneuver around any situation that comes in your life. We want you to be the master of your destiny. We want you to be emotionally healthy so you can make wise decisions that align with the deepest purpose which you know in your heart.
I know what you are feeling and I felt the same way at one point. But in the middle of my NLP Practitioner event, I had an epiphany, a breakthrough that has changed my life forever. We have been able to serve more than ten thousand people from more than ten countries and had fun doing it.
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PS
If you skimmed to the end (like me) to know what this article is all about, then here is what it covers:
1) 3 strategies most people use to go about approaching their goals
2) Modeling as the most effective strategy and why?
3) 3 important aspects of modeling.
Thank you for reading.