How Public Speaking Can Boost Your Confidence: Speak Up, Shine Bright!
Deborah Northcutt
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Many people feel nervous about speaking in public, but that’s exactly why it’s so powerful. When you step up to speak, you’re confronting one of the most common fears head-on. Think of it like diving into a pool for the first time—it’s scary at first, but once you’re in, you realize it’s not so bad.
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For example, consider a student who’s terrified of giving a class presentation. At first, they might stumble over their words or feel shaky, but after a few tries, they start to get the hang of it. Each time they speak, the fear shrinks a little more, and their confidence grows. Public speaking is like a muscle—the more you use it, the stronger it gets!
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Learning to Express Yourself
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Public speaking helps you organize your thoughts and express them clearly. It’s not just about what you say, but how you say it. For instance, think about telling a story to your friends. The more you practice, the better you get at making your story interesting and engaging.
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Take a public speaker who starts by simply reading their notes word for word. As they practice, they begin to add their own personality and style, making their speeches more relatable and enjoyable for the audience. This ability to express yourself confidently transfers to everyday conversations, helping you feel more comfortable speaking up in any situation.
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Building Resilience
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Not every public speaking experience will be perfect, and that’s okay! Mistakes are part of the learning process. Imagine a speaker who forgets their lines during a big presentation. Instead of panicking, they pause, take a deep breath, and continue. This teaches them resilience—the ability to bounce back from setbacks.
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Over time, these small challenges build up your confidence. You learn that even if something goes wrong, you can handle it. This resilience isn’t just useful in public speaking; it’s a life skill that helps you tackle any obstacle with confidence.
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Gaining Recognition
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Public speaking gives you the opportunity to stand out and be noticed. Whether you’re giving a speech in school, presenting at work, or speaking at a community event, people pay attention when you speak.
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For example, a student who regularly volunteers to give presentations might start to be recognized as a leader in their class. This recognition can lead to new opportunities, such as being chosen to represent the school in competitions or being asked to lead a group project. As others begin to see your strengths, you’ll start to believe in them too, boosting your confidence even more.
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Empowering Others
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One of the most rewarding aspects of public speaking is the ability to inspire and empower others. When you speak confidently, you encourage others to do the same.
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Consider a speaker who shares their personal story of overcoming challenges. Their words might resonate with someone in the audience who’s facing similar struggles. By speaking up, the speaker not only boosts their own confidence but also gives others the courage to face their own fears. This creates a positive cycle where confidence is shared and multiplied.
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Public speaking isn’t just about talking in front of a group—it’s about growing as a person. By facing your fears, learning to express yourself, building resilience, gaining recognition, and empowering others, you can boost your confidence in ways you never imagined.
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If you would like to watch the video, you can watch it here
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So, the next time you have a chance to speak in public, take it! You’ll be amazed at how much stronger and more confident you’ll feel.
Learning to Express Yourself
Public speaking helps you organize your thoughts and express them clearly. It’s not just about what you say, but how you say it. For instance, think about telling a story to your friends. The more you practice, the better you get at making your story interesting and engaging
Take a public speaker who starts by simply reading their notes word for word. As they practice, they begin to add their own personality and style, making their speeches more relatable and enjoyable for the audience. This ability to express yourself confidently transfers to everyday conversations, helping you feel more comfortable speaking up in any situation
Building Resilience
Not every public speaking experience will be perfect, and that’s okay! Mistakes are part of the learning process. Imagine a speaker who forgets their lines during a big presentation. Instead of panicking, they pause, take a deep breath, and continue. This teaches them resilience—the ability to bounce back from setbacks.
Over time, these small challenges build up your confidence. You learn that even if something goes wrong, you can handle it. This resilience isn’t just useful in public speaking; it’s a life skill that helps you tackle any obstacle with confidence.
Gaining Recognition
Public speaking gives you the opportunity to stand out and be noticed. Whether you’re giving a speech in school, presenting at work, or speaking at a community event, people pay attention when you speak.
For example, a student who regularly volunteers to give presentations might start to be recognized as a leader in their class. This recognition can lead to new opportunities, such as being chosen to represent the school in competitions or being asked to lead a group project. As others begin to see your strengths, you’ll start to believe in them too, boosting your confidence even more.
Empowering Others
One of the most rewarding aspects of public speaking is the ability to inspire and empower others. When you speak confidently, you encourage others to do the same.
Consider a speaker who shares their personal story of overcoming challenges. Their words might resonate with someone in the audience who’s facing similar struggles. By speaking up, the speaker not only boosts their own confidence but also gives others the courage to face their own fears. This creates a positive cycle where confidence is shared and multiplied.
Public speaking isn’t just about talking in front of a group—it’s about growing as a person. By facing your fears, learning to express yourself, building resilience, gaining recognition, and empowering others, you can boost your confidence in ways you never imagined.
So, the next time you have a chance to speak in public, take it! You’ll be amazed at how much stronger and more confident you’ll feel.
If you'd to watch the video you can watch it here
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2 个月My advice to new speakers is always think of the audience. They're there to hear you. Think of it as a conversation you might have with friends or in the case of a not so friendly audience a person you want to make a convincing argument to. If it's appropriate a little humor or a story can lighten the mood and make you less tense. My first major speaking was my first year as a High School Principal at graduation. I started with my favorite memories of the class the parents loved to hear about the kids and it both improved my nerves and the whole ceremony.
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2 个月Great points about public speaking Deborah. I encourage leaders to be CST's Chief storytellers. Being able to tell stories in front of people can make you better and change people's lives for the better. Keep up your great work!
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2 个月Speaking is a great skill to have and share with the world, it's not about how large the audience is or will be. The message is key.... The word is life. John 1:4 Speaking is spiritual...